Hiya...have you done anything like a dafne course? It's very good at helping to understand lifestyle & dose interactions as it were & from memory (it was some years ago!) we discussed weight loss too. It's really hard when you have little ones- my experience has been that diabetic pregnancy was blinking hard work & involved a fair bit of weight gain as the only way i could maintain a level form of control was to 'eat up' to the insulin rather than the other way round (ie told to snack often to avoid sickness, i couldnt bolus just 1u effectively - so would end up having 2u & eating twice as much as id intended! 🙄 )
Since the kids i've managed to get on an insulin pump, it's been much better for my control & i've been able to manage my weight far better as i really can dose for what i eat now - could this be an option for you?
I do still tend to comfort eat when stressed or unhappy, that's my main weight issue now & i suspect that for you & i both fatigue from child wrangling is at play too! That all said if i don't make the effort to get my sugar levels right in the first place i feel so rubbish i don't have the energy or motivation to eat well & exercise, so i think you are very sensible to say you are not going to stop or reduce your levemir, as that's not an answer to the problem. I think like a lot of things weight loss for diabetics on insulin can be trickier but it can be done, it does however seem to need more hard work from us (flipping typical eh?!!)
Anyway, sorry i'm rambling, i just wanted to say i can understand how you feel but try not to be hard on yourself - being a diabetic mum is hard enough, the diabetes is like a 2nd kid to wrangle! You'll get there with the weight loss in time, just be careful to do it in a healthy, sustainable way. All the best, Twitchy x