Were you at the Chester event? Caitlin & I dropped him off and went walking the dogs for the day. It seemed to really fire him up and he really enjoyed the day, even booked me in to take him to the next one...I'm so sorry Janice. He was a truly lovely man and it was a pleasure to meet him last month.
Thank you Pattie, if Fergus was a presence on any other forums, then I don't know about them, I only knew about this and the motorhome forum because he hed left them open on the computer on Tuesday morning. I'm a forum novice, so if you could pass along the message form me to any other forum sites I would be grateful.Oh Janice, I am so very sorry for your loss. Fergus was a long standing and well respected member of not only this forum but others. I have valued his input for many years in diabetes-support.org,uk and have loved his tales of the dogs and the van he converted. No words can convey how terrible his loss to his family is, I would just like to give you a little comfort by telling you of the respect he commanded.
Thank you very much, I'm really touched by all the nice things that people are posting here, and on the motorhome site that he had left open on Tuesday morning. He was the sort of character that you didn't forget. And I'll miss telling me off for not watching my own diabetes properly. In a few weeks I may even come back to these forums and take up his place.Janice - I'm so sorry to hear this. Fergus and I 'found' the internet Diabetes world together almost - originally both on another forum - so I think I always regarded him as an old pal I'd always known, who could usually be relied on to give an encouraging, sensible word and often - a guffaw - never a PITA here with his own problems. And we all loved the dogs, if we say we are missing him they certainly must do more.
Needless to say - my thoughts naturally go out mainly to yourself and Caitlin - since you will miss him most of all.
Sleep well Fergus.
Strangely enough, it looks like he was on this forum on Tuesday morning, probably while he was making himself a brew. I'll miss him most because he won't be there to keep telling me to take my diabetes meds. It's nice to know that he had forum friends with whom to pass the hours he was at home (between walking the dogs). Thanks a lot, JaniceJanice, I'm just so shocked and saddened to read of Fergus passing.
Fergus had certainly been posting on fora since well before I had my diagnosis, and I first encountered him on another diabetes forum. I always greatly admired how he had dealt with his metaphoric hand of duff cards; being able to come off insulin, then his other meds. I often cited him to new T2 people who asked "is it possible to come off insulin" as someone who had done just that, and true to his nature, he would usually pop onto that thread with conformation and encouragement for the new person who would often be at least concerned, and most often very fearful.
His will be missed.
I hope you, Caitlin and the others who loved him can find a place to remember Fergus in happy times.