Buttonmoon78
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- Relationship to Diabetes
- Carer/Partner
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- She/Her
Hello! I’m here on behalf of my partner, who is T2. He’s 51 and has been T2 for 30 years or so.
For background, he’s gone through periods of better and worse control through that time - from doing triathlons and peak climbing to not controlling it at all and gaining a lot of weight.
We’re at the point now where he’s desperate to get it under control. He tried 12 months ago but everything was upside down - he started on gliclazide but his sugars don’t respond as they’re meant to. When he eats carbs his sugars stay high for hours and hours, even with gliclazide, and he was then having super low readings at night. His response to foods never seems to be typical - all the things the nurse specialist suggests send his sugars bonkers.
When he tried last year he ended up eating pretty much the Atkins diet and was miserable but it kept his sugars more under control and we ended up seeing a private specialist who suspected monogenic diabetes because of the way he responds to things. It proved not to be, but we didn’t do anymore investigations with her because she and her team were useless. As a retired clinician myself I don’t use that word lightly but she was. Incorrectly booked tests, incorrect locations, outright lies about what was happening and letters sent etc. It was a shambles and he totally lost heart and just gave up. Carried on with the metformin but nothing else.
Now we’re here, another annual check up and another hba1c reading later and he’s trying the gliclazide again. Once again his sugars remain high after the smallest amount of carbs. Once again he feels worse now than when he’s not really watching his intake - he feels like he’s got brain fog and feels forgetful and clumsy. He keeps saying that he always feels worse when he watches what he’s eating.
So I guess I’m wondering if anyone has any words of wisdom or can recommend a specialist in the northeast Hampshire/ west Surrey/ south Berkshire region? Happy to go private again as he’s got good cover with work.
For background, he’s gone through periods of better and worse control through that time - from doing triathlons and peak climbing to not controlling it at all and gaining a lot of weight.
We’re at the point now where he’s desperate to get it under control. He tried 12 months ago but everything was upside down - he started on gliclazide but his sugars don’t respond as they’re meant to. When he eats carbs his sugars stay high for hours and hours, even with gliclazide, and he was then having super low readings at night. His response to foods never seems to be typical - all the things the nurse specialist suggests send his sugars bonkers.
When he tried last year he ended up eating pretty much the Atkins diet and was miserable but it kept his sugars more under control and we ended up seeing a private specialist who suspected monogenic diabetes because of the way he responds to things. It proved not to be, but we didn’t do anymore investigations with her because she and her team were useless. As a retired clinician myself I don’t use that word lightly but she was. Incorrectly booked tests, incorrect locations, outright lies about what was happening and letters sent etc. It was a shambles and he totally lost heart and just gave up. Carried on with the metformin but nothing else.
Now we’re here, another annual check up and another hba1c reading later and he’s trying the gliclazide again. Once again his sugars remain high after the smallest amount of carbs. Once again he feels worse now than when he’s not really watching his intake - he feels like he’s got brain fog and feels forgetful and clumsy. He keeps saying that he always feels worse when he watches what he’s eating.
So I guess I’m wondering if anyone has any words of wisdom or can recommend a specialist in the northeast Hampshire/ west Surrey/ south Berkshire region? Happy to go private again as he’s got good cover with work.