Welcome to the forum
@fifilatour
I’ve split your post and replies away into your own thread to avoid it getting lost and mixed up in replies to someone else.
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Sorry to hear about the difficulties you have previously had with diets and weight management. You aren’t alone in that. many members over the years have experienced the same.
It seems to help some members to look for a new ‘way of eating’ that you can sustain in the longer term, and which is flexible and satisfying enough to maintain its appeal. Looking for a mix of foods that give you the energy you need, are enjoyable, workable, affordable, and which keep your BG levels steady, and gradually get your weight where you want it.
Many new members find it can be really helpful to keep a brutally honest food diary for a week or two. Note down everything you eat and drink, along with a reasonable estimate of the total carbohydrate content in your meals and snacks - it doesn’t have to be gram-perfect, the nearest 5-10g is fine. It’s the total carbohydrate content of meals (not just ‘of which sugars’ which will give you an idea of their potential to raise glucose levels,
Once you can see which meals or snacks are your ‘big hitters’, and where carbs might be unexpectedly lurking, your diary might also suggest some likely candidates for swaps, portion reductions, or using lower carb alternatives (eg celeriac or swede mash, or cauli ‘rice’).
Good luck, and let us know how you get on
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