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Confused - Newtothis

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Newtothis

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How exactly do GP's diagnose diabetes? I know the WHO changed the definition for fasting and random levels (which is a pity because I wouldn't have been diabetic 10 years ago) but why do GP's say you are; give you a handout and then leave you to your own devices for weeks. I have no symptoms except brother being Typ; not sure what I'm meant to eat; don't now whether I should be checking sugar levels:confused: - confused...
 
I think things have been moving towards tightening the definition of diabetes over the years. Different criteria are used, whether it is fasting levels, the results of an Oral Glucose Tolerance Test (OGTT) or HbA1c reading, or in some cases a couple of random tests where the patient presents with some of the symptoms. There is a very broad spectrum and some people might be termed 'pre-diabetic', in that they have elevated levels but not quite fitting the diabetes diagnosis definition. Actually, it is quite scary how many doctores miss diabetes altogether and don't test for it, despite a great deal of evidence to the contrary - there are good and bad doctors out there.

Some GPs are much better than others in their initial advice and guidance. The more enlightened ones will suggest a low-carb or GL diet, and encourage you to test before and after meals so that you can learn how different foods and activities affect you. Others simply dish out a couple of leaflets and maybe some pills and leave you to your own devices, just sending you for tests every 3, 6 or 12 months. To be fair to them, many people would rather not test, would rather take pills than change their diet, and resign themselves to feeling rubbish and eventually succumbing to complications.

I am always encouraged to hear when people are directed here, or to other online forums, by a healthcare professional - they are on the ball and acknowledge that diabetes is a disease that can be managed well given the right sort of advice, tools and support. It's a big learning curve, but I have seen countless accounts from people who have turned things around and can now reel off the advice like experts - this is because it is something you work at every day, so it becomes routine - maybe with the odd glitch - but proactive. You have made a good start by coming here and I have no doubt that if you stick with it you will feel much happier and nowhere near as confused in the weeks and months to come! 🙂
 
Newtothis

To be honest - I'm more scared than confused. The thought of diabetes terrifies me that I physically shake. :confused:
 
Poor you! I do know what you mean though. it is scary in the early days and you read such terrible stories of when it all goes wrong. It's a normal part of getting used to the idea though. Along with anger, denial, confusion, impatience, sadness, and grieving for the 'life' you've lost.

Information is the key though, and not dwelling on the negative. Knowledge brings confidence. You can and will get control of things and you will learn to take it in your stride. We will help you as much as we can. I fumbled my way around for years on my own til I found this place. Wish I'd found it much sooner. XXXXX
 
Newtothis

Poor you! I do know what you mean though. it is scary in the early days and you read such terrible stories of when it all goes wrong. It's a normal part of getting used to the idea though. Along with anger, denial, confusion, impatience, sadness, and grieving for the 'life' you've lost.

Information is the key though, and not dwelling on the negative. Knowledge brings confidence. You can and will get control of things and you will learn to take it in your stride. We will help you as much as we can. I fumbled my way around for years on my own til I found this place. Wish I'd found it much sooner. XXXXX

I just wish I knew what I'm meant to do; my Gp tells me I'm likely to be Type 2; Random was 11.8 and Fasting 7.4 - gives me a handout on Diabetes Type 2; books another blood test for 2 weeks time ; Diabetes clinic in a month and pushes me out the door.

My family have been great but I don't know what I should be doing; eating etc... I've started losing weight; lost 1 stone in 6 weeks and do daily exercise but worry it's not enough.... I'm getting myself into a right pickle....completely daft
 
Hi I'm not experienced enough about Type 2 to give advice but I know that you will get loads of information and support from people on this site. Please try not to worry you will soon know everything that you need to know about living with your diabetes..........and I'm fuming that your doctor gave you so little information
 
Some docs are just rubbish at the support bit, or too rushed to get it right. We're lucky that ours is internet savvy, as are the diabetes nurses and others in the team at the hospital.

Himself has been Type 1 since early 1995, and the GMNT since half term - right in the middle of his GCSE exams! I honestly think, having spent years talking to diabetes care teams and inmates of both Type 1 and 2 that the Type 1's have an easier job getting good advice, help and support. That's not to say you won't get the good stuff too: just that it looks like you'll need to be a bit more proactive in tapping in to it. The folk here on the forums are fantastic at finding stuff out, passing it on, and generally helping and supporting. Welcome to the fold!

And don't be scared. There are scary things that might happen if you don't get good control, and finding what works for you may not be easy. But that's what the forum does: pass on advice, experiences, and ideas that you can try. Lots of short cuts, if you like.

And if a scary thing does happen, we're also here to help you through that.
 
I think you should ask your doctor what education courses are available in your area. There are some nationwide ones like DESMOND and Xpert, but your PCT may offer something of their own. According to NICE guidelines, education about diabetes should be available for every newly-diagnosed person. Often, people find that meeting others with diabetes on such courses is actually the biggest boost to their confidence and motivation, so do ask your GP 🙂
 
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Newtothis - Scared and Confused

Guys, thanks for your support - I'm sorry for being such a wuss x🙂
 
Positive Step

Just ordered suggested book from Amazon for newly diagnosed Type 2. My problem is I'm looking too much on the complications as opposed to managing a condition that is managable its a bit like the saying 'my cup is half empty as opposed to being half full'. x
 
Just ordered suggested book from Amazon for newly diagnosed Type 2. My problem is I'm looking too much on the complications as opposed to managing a condition that is managable its a bit like the saying 'my cup is half empty as opposed to being half full'. x

Perfectly understandable, as you learn more you will feel more in control and less overwhelmed. Getting the book is a great step forward 🙂
 
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