Hi. I've had a similar issue with counting carbs.
Recently I was discussing this with a fellow type 2 who showed me a book called Carbs & Cals (it's on the Diabetes UK website).
This book has thousands of everyday food items with their carb, calories, fat, protein & fibre content.
There is also an app for your mobile which I've downloaded. You can enter your personal details e.g. height, weight etc and whether you want to lose, gain or maintain your weight. It then calculates the carbs, calories etc you can have to attain your target.
The food database makes counting carbs etc easy as it runs a daily total showing what you've consumed and what you have left.
It's helped me lose about 10lbs in 2 months (including Christmas).
Hope this helps.