If you don’t want to read a particular thread, you don’t have to, just don’t look!
If only it was that easy for some. My life would be so much easier if I could just do that. However mental health issues mean I find it *really* hard to do, sometimes impossible.Yes, just don’t read them! It’s like finding a free magazine on a train. You only read the articles that interest you. The subject matter is usually clear from the title but if it’s not and you click on it and realise it’s not a thread you want to read, just click Back and find something more to your taste
Both really. I've never been diagnosed but I'm nailed on autistic and can't back down from an argument when I know I'm right (think I'm right?!). If I see a thread title on a subject I'm remotely interested in-even if I know the content will 'grab' me-I find it extremely difficult to leave it alone.Apologies - I’m not sure if you’re saying you have a compulsion to read everything even if it’s not your thing, or if you’re saying that you can’t stop yourself replying/commenting sometimes even though you objectively know you should stop and just ignore comments you don’t agree with or that irk you?
I play the long game. Study the kneejerkers. Then return at what transpires. Always a “paper trail.” Or walk away. Some have a habit of eventually shooting their own foot.It's the same at work if my colleagues are discussing some contentious piece of news or another. I have to really work so hard to stay out of it!
Trouble is we're a team of 6 who have all worked together for at least 20 years so I know them all so well and know their strengths and weaknesses in an argumentI play the long game. Study the kneejerkers. Then return at what transpires. Always a “paper trail.” Or walk away. Some have a habit of eventually shooting their own foot.
Some people don’t like to loose a debate? They clutch at any affirming agenda driven straws. Scroll on, loose or concede the battle. Win the war. You’re earning your wage. Say what you want in your own free time. Best wishes.Trouble is we're a team of 6 who have all worked together for at least 20 years so I know them all so well and know their strengths and weaknesses in an argument![]()
You make it sound so easySome people don’t like to loose a debate? They clutch at any affirming agenda driven straws. Scroll on, loose or concede the battle. Win the war. You’re earning your wage. Say what you want in your own free time. Best wishes.