I think there are two things going on, the initial spike is because there's not enough insulin in your system when the carbs start being absorbed. The liver can absorb quite significant quantities of glucose as it passes through the portal vein from the intestine, however, this requires insulin to be in the system (over and above basal).
This can either be dealt with my taking your insulin earlier than your meal, or by giving a small pre-bolus dose (e.g. 1 or 2 units, depending on your current blood glucose - you don't want to run low) well in advance of the meal (to be sure it's in your system and working)
The dip in the middle is caused by the insulin activity and total duration not matching the food absorption profile (i.e. food takes longer to absorb and present carbs to your body than your insulin is dealing with them). To deal with this you can split your dose and take part at the beginning and part later (where later depends on your blood glucose and how slowly the food is absorbed). The first of the split doses and the pre-bolus can then potentially be combined (i.e. remove the pre-bolus, and move the first of the split doses even earlier than the meal), though it's probably less effective than getting some insulin on board early unless the timing is perfect and you run the risk of running low before or shortly after starting to eat if you misjudge (as we all do as every day is different).
YMMV, this is my current thinking and what I'm attempting to do (every day is different though 🙂)
P.S. A spike up to 12 and then down to 6 isn't all that terrible imo, having eaten a stir-fry I'd be quite happy with that as the combo a sauce that often contains lots of sugar, oil/fat and high carb noodles is tricky.
P.P.S. When you hit the "low" in the middle, if you've not split your dose, or you have split and your blood sugar is staying level rather than going up, which is what I used to expect, it's very hard to not think that perhaps you've misjudged the quantity of carbs/your insulin sensitivity and to therefore eat something more because you think you'll shortly go low with so much insulin still on board. Err on the side of caution.