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AlisonM, very sad news

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Very sad to hear this news. My thoughts go to her family & friends, and also to those of you on here, many of whom will have built great friendships with Alison over the years. She was always very kind and thoughtful in her posts and I am sure she will be greatly missed.
 
Fare-thee-weel, thou first and fairest!
Fare-thee-weel, thou best and dearest!
Thine be ilka joy and treasure,
Peace, enjoyment, love and pleasure!
Ae fond kiss, and then we sever!
Ae fareweeli alas, for ever!
Deep in heart-wrung tears I’ll pledge thee,
Warring sighs and groans I'll wage thee.


From Rabbie Burns most recorded love song, Ae Fond Kiss, written in 1791.
Sung beautifully here by Eddi Reader.
 
Fare-thee-weel, thou first and fairest!
Fare-thee-weel, thou best and dearest!
Thine be ilka joy and treasure,
Peace, enjoyment, love and pleasure!
Ae fond kiss, and then we sever!
Ae fareweeli alas, for ever!
Deep in heart-wrung tears I’ll pledge thee,
Warring sighs and groans I'll wage thee.


From Rabbie Burns most recorded love song, Ae Fond Kiss, written in 1791.
Sung beautifully here by Eddi Reader.
A very apt tribute, @missclb, particularly today as I know Ally always looked forward to celebrating Burns' Night. Thank you for sharing. Very moving, listening to it and thinking of her
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Just listened to that Eddi reader video with tears in my eyes. Truly beautiful and apt. Slán leat, AlisonM. (OK, I know that's actually Irish Gaelic, but I don't know the Scots equivalent. Sorry.)
 
Have just read this desperately sad news. I will miss her as she helped me so much and was always kind and ready to support and help. My thoughts are with her family. We will all miss her on this Forum, she was a bright star.
 
Very sad news, may she rest in peace.
 
Very sad news. All her family and friends are in my thoughts. She was always helpful to me. How many people she helped is inspiring. xx
 
So shocked to read this tragic news, thinking of all who love her. I am very grateful to have met her here and received so much support. Reading all the beautiful messages I know she will be missed by many and she inspired many of us.
 
A friend of Alison's has just written this on her Facebook page:

It is with deep sadness that I write this post. Alison passed away on the 19th. She had been in Raigmore for a couple of weeks over serious problems related to her diabetes but wasn't recovering. She went into a coma on Thursday night and just didn't wake up again. A service will be held at the crematorium on Monday at 11am. RIP Alison. It has been a privilege to have you in my life.

:(
 
Please - can anyone in Scotland get there, to represent the Forum?
 
I would love to, but first ferry on Monday gets me into Oban at 8.45, and Inverness is a good three hour drive from Oban. If it it had been an hour later I would have gone for sure.:(
 
I would love to, but first ferry on Monday gets me into Oban at 8.45, and Inverness is a good three hour drive from Oban. If it it had been an hour later I would have gone for sure.:(

A very nice offer there Mike but nobody would expect it given the distance involved and the planning needed for your mobility needs.
 
I was hoping there might be someone a tad nearer, Mike. I would, off my own bat anyway, were I anywhere within striking distance.
 
It's a strictly private funeral, no flowers, no donations, no nothing. This would have been Alison's wishes, not the family, so don't take this amiss. Please don't go against these wishes.
 
Very sad news R.I.P Alison
 
It's a strictly private funeral, no flowers, no donations, no nothing. This would have been Alison's wishes, not the family, so don't take this amiss. Please don't go against these wishes.
Thanks Mike. It's a shame we can't pay our respects as we might wish, but as you say we must respect her wishes.
 
Hello folks, I am (as you can see) Hugh Marnoch, Alison's brother, I found the forum thanks to her friend Isobel who I think is in touch with Hannah?

I want to say thank you to all of you for your messages of sympathy here. I'm very glad to see that Alison was held in high regard and that she touched so many lives in such a positive way.

I would have been in contact earlier but had no access to Alison's phone or laptop, on that point can I make a plea to everyone? If you have a phone that's pin locked or password protected, write down them down and make sure somebody knows where to find them. Pretty much all of Alison's life was contained on her phone and consequently I wasn't able to get in touch with many of her friends in a timely way.

Alison was a lifelong music lover and if you are interested in hearing it, this is some of the music I chose from her collection for her service last week.


She also loved Robert Burns poetry and so I chose this from his Tam O'Shanter

But pleasures are like poppies spread,
You seize the flow’r, its bloom is shed;
Or like the snow falls in the river,
A moment white – then melts forever;
Or like the Borealis race,
That flit ere you can point their place;
Or like the Rainbow’s lovely form
Vanishing amid the storm. –
Nae man can tether Time nor Tide.
 
That is lovely. RIP Alison. I didn't really know you but in the short time I was here when you were you made a very good impression. :(
 
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