shell123x
Active Member
- Relationship to Diabetes
- Type 1
Hello,
I am Type 1 Diabetic along with suffering from M.E/CFS. I am not in the shielded category but in the vulnerable group under Covid-19 Gov guidelines. I have luckily been looked after work wise and have been working from home since lockdown started and work have advised me that I will not be allowed back into the office until September 2020 at the earliest. I have been following all guidelines since day one and have only been out for walks and recently spending time with family in a park or a garden. I don't go to the shops as I get my food delivered and only live with my partner who is also working from home.
My partner has 2 children from 2 different Mum's and we took the difficult decision to not be able to look after his children whilst lockdown was in place due to my medical needs and the fact both children were from 2 different households and his 2 year old being higher risk due to being at his Childminder still. He has an 8 year old daughter and a 2 year old son. His daughter isn't at school and won't be back until September 2020 and has been in lockdown with her Mum (who is working from home) and Step Dad (who works outside alone) and has only been seeing family from a distance in the garden or park. His 2 year old son has still been attending the Childminder as his Mum is a key worker and so has had to go into the office daily, with a minimum number of staff. Recently we have been able to take his daughter for walks and spend some time with her in the garden, however we still haven't seen his son as it would be very difficult to social distance and explain to him what is going on. My partner regularly Facetimes his son albeit it is not the same as actually having him in our company.
As restrictions are slowly lifting more and more I would like some advice on what might be the best option for me to do. His daughter's Mum is due to go back into her office full time from 6th July and would obviously like help with childcare. We normally have his daughter 3 times a week and I trust that his daughter and her Mum have been following guidelines but worried that if I spend time with her in a closer proximity and inside this may put me at risk. If we end up looking after his daughter we feel that we should offer to have his son again every other weekend (which is what was in place before Covid-19) but again I would be putting myself at risk as he is still at the Childminder daily and I know recently he has been seeing his Mum's family, which has been in a garden but social distancing wasn't in place as he doesn't understand.
I keep thinking that I am just panicking and anxious about things because I struggle to even go into a shop at the moment without overthinking about it or going into a panic.
Would it be silly to look after both children indoors and overnight every so often or am I just overthinking and need to start thinking about getting back into some normality? I have felt awful from day one that both children's Mum have had to have the children 24/7 especially his son's Mum who is by herself but I also know that it was the right decision for my health.
Apologies for being an essay but it's a complicated situation and any advice would be appreciated 🙂
I am Type 1 Diabetic along with suffering from M.E/CFS. I am not in the shielded category but in the vulnerable group under Covid-19 Gov guidelines. I have luckily been looked after work wise and have been working from home since lockdown started and work have advised me that I will not be allowed back into the office until September 2020 at the earliest. I have been following all guidelines since day one and have only been out for walks and recently spending time with family in a park or a garden. I don't go to the shops as I get my food delivered and only live with my partner who is also working from home.
My partner has 2 children from 2 different Mum's and we took the difficult decision to not be able to look after his children whilst lockdown was in place due to my medical needs and the fact both children were from 2 different households and his 2 year old being higher risk due to being at his Childminder still. He has an 8 year old daughter and a 2 year old son. His daughter isn't at school and won't be back until September 2020 and has been in lockdown with her Mum (who is working from home) and Step Dad (who works outside alone) and has only been seeing family from a distance in the garden or park. His 2 year old son has still been attending the Childminder as his Mum is a key worker and so has had to go into the office daily, with a minimum number of staff. Recently we have been able to take his daughter for walks and spend some time with her in the garden, however we still haven't seen his son as it would be very difficult to social distance and explain to him what is going on. My partner regularly Facetimes his son albeit it is not the same as actually having him in our company.
As restrictions are slowly lifting more and more I would like some advice on what might be the best option for me to do. His daughter's Mum is due to go back into her office full time from 6th July and would obviously like help with childcare. We normally have his daughter 3 times a week and I trust that his daughter and her Mum have been following guidelines but worried that if I spend time with her in a closer proximity and inside this may put me at risk. If we end up looking after his daughter we feel that we should offer to have his son again every other weekend (which is what was in place before Covid-19) but again I would be putting myself at risk as he is still at the Childminder daily and I know recently he has been seeing his Mum's family, which has been in a garden but social distancing wasn't in place as he doesn't understand.
I keep thinking that I am just panicking and anxious about things because I struggle to even go into a shop at the moment without overthinking about it or going into a panic.
Would it be silly to look after both children indoors and overnight every so often or am I just overthinking and need to start thinking about getting back into some normality? I have felt awful from day one that both children's Mum have had to have the children 24/7 especially his son's Mum who is by herself but I also know that it was the right decision for my health.
Apologies for being an essay but it's a complicated situation and any advice would be appreciated 🙂