LOL - so when you say you've had no support from your doctor, that's not completely true then! - I hoped it wasn't.
What help have YOU asked him for? Does he actually KNOW that you feel unsupported?
Yes I realise that WE know it's difficult to deal with and we need our hands holding to some extent - but to be absolutely fair, what GP actually has the time nowadays to give the kind of support you are now getting from this forum? They don't, do they?
It's an odd thing really - we're at a Group practice and although I wasn't registered with him, they have always had one who had 'a special interest in D' - following retirements he's now head of Practice. I've never found him a great deal of help to be honest - but another T1 I met and got friendly with on a D course we were on a few years back, said her dad, a T2 - thought he was marvellous. And recently over something my husband had going on - the bloke has been excellent in his caring attitude (Pete was diagnosed by the hospital and received everything he has needed since, from them) BUT as soon as 'our GP' was notified of the original diagnosis - Dr E was on the phone to him at home, wanting to know if he was OK, needed any help with anything, was there anything they to do to help, if he needed anything, just ask etc. We knew they would be able to help if we needed them to - but I thought it excellent to specifically ring and ask. Oh and he needed a scrip for something that needed hoops jumping through - and again he'd ring every few days with a update, even if they hadn't heard anything yet!
I think the problem is you know, that because we are clueless to begin with so can't say 'This is what I need!' - they can't provide it. Yet, once we understand a bit more and can put it into words - then they DO try and help if they can. So - we are really our own worst enemies - however - the surgery nurses could help more than they sometimes do - by suggesting where each of us can find out more info on the interwebnet thingy, or books to read.
But there again - do THEY know, themselves? I think WE need to tell them, don't we!