Hi SallyP, welcome to the forum
🙂 Very sorry to hear about your diagnosis

Have you been given any medication?
The first thing to bear in mind (and hopefully clear up a bit of confusion!) is that you diabetes is not just about sugar. All carbohydrates will raise blood glucose levels, and sugar is just one form of carbohydrate - other examples are potatoes, rice, bread, pasta, baked goods that contain flour (flour is chiefly carbohydrate). This doesn't mean that you have to stop eating carbohydrates altogether, but you do need to be aware of how much you are consuming. I would recommend reading
Jennifer's Advice and
Maggie Davey's letter - these will give you a better understanding of diabetes and approaches to dealing with it. I would also recommend getting a copy of the excellent
Type 2 Diabetes: The First Year by Gretchen Becker, which many of our members have found extremely helpful to guide you through these early months
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I'd suggest starting to keep a food diary, recording the amount of carbohydrates in everything you eat or drink. This will give you an accurate idea of your daily carb consumption, and can also be used as a basis for investigating areas that might be improved - more green veg and less potato, for example.
A good starting point for your diet is to find foods that have a slow, steady impact on blood glucose levels, and the GL (Glycaemic Load) diet is very useful in this respect -
The GL Diet for Dummies is a very good introduction
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Have you been given a home monitor and a prescription for test strips, so you can monitor the effect of your food choices on your blood glucose levels? Often, these are not prescribed for Type 2s, but that is a shame because they are really the best tool available for discovering your own individual reactions to different food choices and the reactions can be very individual! Although there are some basic principles, there is no 'one-size-fits-all' solution, as people can very considerably in their tolerances for certain things (some people are fine with porridge, for example, whereas others would find their levels shooting up). Have a read of
Test,Review, Adjust by Alan S in order to understand how a monitor can help you. If you weren't given a monitor, it's definitely worth getting your own. The cheapest option we have come across is the
SD Codefree Meter which has
test strips at around £8 for 50 (High St ones can charge up to £30 for 50 test strips
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Finally, regular exercise really helps in keeping your blood glucose levels under control, so whatever you can manage will give you benefits - a daily walk, after a meal if possible, will really help as it makes you more sensitive to the insulin your body is producing
🙂 Is there anything in particular you enjoy already?
Diabetes is a serious condition, there is no doubt, but the good news is that, with the right knowledge and determination, it can be managed very well and many people find that the adjustments they make result in them feeling happier and healthier than they have for some time!
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Please let us know if you have any questions - there is a wealth of knowledge and experience here, and no questions is considered 'silly', so if it is confusing or confounding you, let us know!
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