Hi Sally, welcome to the forum
🙂 I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis

How did it come about? What insulin have you been given, and how are you getting on so far?
There are techniques you can use to reduce the problems with finger-pricking - have a read of
Painless Pricks, by Alan S for some excellent tips
🙂 It can depend to some extent on the lancet device you are using - does it have a 'variable depth' setting? It does get better once you have mastered the technique - mine do occasionally get a bit sore but that's probably my own fault for not changing my lancets often enough!
I'd highly recommend getting a copy of
Type 1 Diabetes in Children Adolescents and Young People by Ragnar Hanas, which is an excellent reference to all aspects of living with Type 1 - don't be put off by the title, it doesn't matter if you are 8 or 80, most of it will still apply (I was 49 at diagnosis).
I'd also recommend getting a free copy of
100 things I wish I'd known about diabetes - full of tips from people living with diabetes and all things that a lot of people learn the hard way, but you don't have to!
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Please let us know if you have any questions or concerns and we will be very happy to help
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