Hi Willowz
Forgive my complete confusion... and I'm sure your team are great and you've had full support and education, but you've just made the hair on the back of my neck go up.
I completely understand the fixed-doses approach to get people started. But the 'not carb counting' never makes any sense to me. I'm yet to have a conversation with any DSN where they can satisfactorily convince me that unmoderated/unmonitored carb intake combined with fixed doses of insulin will lead to anything other that confusion, anxiety and yo-yoing BG levels.
It's great that you are on a MDI (Levemir/Novorapid), however just because you are not changing your doses doesn't mean monitoring carbs is any less important. When I was first diagnosed 'exchanges' were the thing. I was put on fixed doses of insulin AND told how many 'exchanges' of carbohydrate to try in order to match those doses. These days they call 'exchanges' CP's (carbohydrate portions) but it still boils down to units of 10g of carbs. The slower release the better.
This meant that I knew I needed to have 40g of carbs for breakfast, 50g at lunch and 60g at dinner (or whatever it was). I began to get to know what 60g of pasta looked like on a plate. To make a guessed allowance for a sauce and knock a bit off. To know that for a potato something about the size of a hen's egg is roughly 10g. Slice of bread? 15g - 20g depending on med or thick sliced. All meals became a question of sort of mix-and-match adding up of whatever was on the plate to reach the 'right' amount of carbs.
Now there is no need to keep those meals absolutely set in stone of course. You can eat more and inject more, eat less and inject less. But there is so much to learn in the early days that a few fixed-points were incredibly helpful to me. They helped me to build a database of portion sizes and carb values on which I could base some pretty accurate guesses if eating away from home.
I sincerely hope that you have been told all this already. I expect you have. But just in case, here is the truth of it. Insulin doses need to be balanced or 'matched' with carbs. There's not a lot of option about it. Unless you measure/monitor the amount of carbs you are eating you have no way of making informed changes to insulin doses to get them right. Blood glucose readings after meals only make sense of you can see the insulin dose AND the estimate of the amount of carbs eaten.
Good control is a lot of work. Carb counting will feel like a bit of a faff for a while - well, until you begin to find yourself guestimating meal content from 50 paces! By then guessing carbs will be second nature and you'll find it easy enough to take a much more flexible approach to meal sizes. Eat out with confidence and have much more of a chance of understanding what has happened when those nasty high or low readings rear their heads.
Good luck!
M
PS sorry! that went on longer than I was expecting it to.