Hi there
@Winifreds child ! First off, huge congratulations on your weight loss and the progress you’ve made — bringing your HbA1c from 49 to 43 through lifestyle changes is a big deal. It shows real commitment and is absolutely something to feel proud of. That’s not easy work.
It sounds like the appointment left you feeling quite dismissed and deflated, which is really understandable. I wanted to ask - do you find that this particular doctor tends to be dismissive of your concerns more generally, or was this the first time it felt that way? Sometimes there are reasons (like a focus on clinical guidelines or past patient experiences), but even so, it can be frustrating when you feel like your own efforts and goals aren't being taken seriously.
At the end of the day, it’s your body and your decision. If you're not comfortable starting a medication like Forxiga right now, it’s okay to take some time to weigh things up, ask more questions, or even seek a second opinion - whether that’s another GP in your practice, a diabetes specialist, or, if you have the means, a private consultation. That might not be a waste of time at all if it helps you feel heard and confident in your choices.
Some people do manage to maintain or reach remission through diet and lifestyle alone, while others benefit from a mix of strategies, including medication - it doesn’t have to be all or nothing, and there’s no one-size-fits-all. But it should always be a conversation
with you, not something done
to you.
You’re clearly putting in the work and thinking carefully about your next steps - you deserve to have that recognised and supported. You're not alone in feeling conflicted, and it's absolutely okay to explore your options before deciding.
I also wanted do ask if you feel safe and comfortable talking openly with the nurse, since they could be a helpful ally in navigating the conflicting messages.