I think these differences in experience are why many members here find self monitoring with a meter around food so helpful
@Djangoman
By checking immediately before eating and again 2hrs later, and looking for a ‘meal rise’ of no more than 2-3mmol/L at the 2 hour mark you can experiment with all sorts of different foods, portion sizes, sources of carbohydrates, time of day - even cooking styles can make a difference!
Personally I find new potatoes the easiest on my glucose levels. I‘m OK with potatoes generally as long as I time my insulin dose properly. The spuds that really hit my BGs hard seem to be jackets. Partly I think because the long and slow cooking dries them out so they become more ‘concentrated’ and I probably eat a bigger one than I realise?
Beans and pulses do seem to be another food that gives rise to very different glucose responses in different people on the forum. Very ‘safe’ for some members, and like rocket fuel for others! Possibly due to how different metabolisms, gut biomes, and genes are able to break down the resistant amylose starches in legumes?
The old diabetes forum adage remains so relevant: Your Diabetes May Vary
It seems clear that you want to make some changes to your menu
@Djangoman - hope the forum can give you some ideas, techniques and suggestions of things to try.
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