It is very sad to see older people when they start to deteriorate but there are few options. My Gran was unable to take care of herself and went into a carehome but she absolutely loved it, there was people of her generation to talk to and things going on all the time. Mind you I am talking about 40 years ago.Morning all.5.6 today.
Not as cold as yesterday morning thank goodness. We lit our fire yesterday to take the chill off the place, then inevitably got too hot as the sun shone through the living room window! I had to decamp to the kitchen at the back of the house!
Today will be a “ bitty” day as mother-in -law is coming home from hospital after 10 days of bedblocking. They wouldn’t release her until another care package was put in place, ( she did receive carers three times a day) but the care company went into liquidation the day after she went into hospital! She is being brought home at 10 this morning on a “ release to assess” basis. To see if she can manage, if not they will take her back to hospital and try and get her in a care home on a temporary basis. Apart from being old, mild dementia and having health anxieties, which she has had all her life, there’s nothing wrong with with her. She’s had every test/ scan whilst in hospital and she’s fine. She’s loved the attention she’s being getting whilst in, she’s been laughing and joking with the nurses, wandering about the ward ( she does neither at home). I fear the late night phone calls saying she’s not well will soon start again. Perhaps a care home might be for the best. It’s sad and I hope I never become a burden to my children like that. It’s very wearing for her sons, two of who have health conditions of their own to deal with. Mr Eggy and his next brother down, are in their 60s and have had eight heart attacks between them!
Have a great Sunday everyone. 🙂
My folks are starting to age more rapidly. They’re 80 and 82 so it’s understandable that they’re aging of course.It is very sad to see older people when they start to deteriorate but there are few options. My Gran was unable to take care of herself and went into a carehome but she absolutely loved it, there was people of her generation to talk to and things going on all the time. Mind you I am talking about 40 years ago.
Sometimes difficult decisions have to be made.
I hope she gets on OK when home.