Hi
I've followed your conversation with Leadinglights so I'll try and stick to things you've not covered.
As your cholesterol was OK, you can quite happily have full fat in your diet. It will make you feel fuller for longer, and I think tastes better. I have a lot of full fat Greek yogurt with a few berries when I want something sweeter. A fruit portion is 80gm. It also makes a low carb breakfast when sprinkled with nuts and seeds (not granola as that is high carb). Another good breakfast is eggs. Omelette with mushrooms and grated cheese is popular. I like mine poached with grilled mushrooms, tomato (1) and the occasional rasher of bacon.
Lunch is usually salad in summer, and home made soup in winter (made without potatoes). I do add haricot, cannellini or butter beans to my soup for their fibre. It does put up the carbs a bit but is more filling and the fibre helps your bowels.
You need to start looking for substitutes for rice and potato. I find cauliflower is good - you can have it with cheese sauce (cream cheese and topped with grated cheddar, or a lower fat variety by melting grated cheese into some of the cooking liquor), mashed, riced. I also have pureed carrots and swede, or squash wedges baked in the oven (with a little sprinkle of paprika) instead of chips or roasties.
You should be looking at 2/3 plate of veggies with 1/3 plate protein. This is squash wedges, carrots, cabbage, runner beans and home made beef stew as an example
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I can't comment on real ale as my app only had once value and I don't know how accurate it was.
I expect you will be put on blood pressure tablets, although if you lose weight your BP will hopefully come down. You are aware that like me you are clinically obese. I was told a diabetic should aim to be less than 120/80 but my GP seems happy with mine at 129/80 on 3 medications. I am also on Sukkarto, the slow release Metformin, plus Canagliflozin, as I could not take the full dose of Sukkarto. They tend to suppress my appetite - not a bad thing.
The important thing to remember, is that you will soon adapt to a new way of living. It might be overwhelming now but it soon becomes 2nd nature. And actually as your diet improves and the weigh comes off you will feel much healthier and happy.