oxleyjules
Member
- Relationship to Diabetes
- Type 1
Hello I am new on here and a very desperate worried mum who doesn't know who to turn to so I really need some advice please. I am so worried about my son who is 20 and has been type 1 diabetic since he was 16. He is in complete denial about his diabetes and eats stupid amounts of sugary food - you name it sweets, cakes, tubs of ice cream, chocolate, anything really that has copious amounts of sugar in it. He does inject his novorapid but always forgets until I remind him. He never tests his blood sugars, refuses to go and get his HBA1C done and won't go and see a doctor or health care professional. I have offered to go to his appointments with him but he refuses and whenever I try to talk to him about it he just clams up and walks away - I too am a type 1 diabetic so know exactly what he is going through. I have tried every tactic from shock, emotional, supportive etc but nothing seems to work. He is losing an awful amount of weight and his muscle mass if diminishing by the day. He sleeps all the time and is irritable, moody, distracted, no motivation and get up and go at all. He puts anything and everything before looking after himself and all he is interested in is going out and having a good time with his mates (which I completely understand). He is now drinking alcohol and goes clubbing to raves so could potentially be taking drugs too and often not coming home at the weekend until 7/8am in the morning, which means he misses his background insulin dose. Is there anyone out there that has a similar situation to mine as I just don't know what to do and worried that something serious is going to happen to him...thanks in advance for any advice. Julie