when i thought things were looking up!!!!

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D_G

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Thats it...last straw....i have had enough of my life!

ANOTHER bit of my tooth fell out!! and not the same one as before this time on the other side!! I just broke down and managed to calm myself down enough to write this...seriously what else could possibly go wrong with my life right now?? i now have 2 rotting teeth in my mouth and cant afford to get anything done so im sure the rest are soon to follow!! I am just sick of getting all the bad luck, nothing ever goes right for me and i am just so tired of it, what is the point of giving someone life itf your just going to make them suffer!! I no longer belive things happen for a reason....i know everyone has there problems but i just feel as if i get all the bad luck and my life is officially (insert swear word of choice here!)

The only thing positive i can think of about my life is my friends, family and the support i get from everyone here but im starting to think its just not enough to get me through!

I just cant believe after having such a good time yesterday and things starting to finally look up for me my teeth are now falling apart ontop of everything else and i serously cant cope any more...whats the point i just give up!!
 
Thats it...last straw....i have had enough of my life!

ANOTHER bit of my tooth fell out!! and not the same one as before this time on the other side!! I just broke down and managed to calm myself down enough to write this...seriously what else could possibly go wrong with my life right now?? i now have 2 rotting teeth in my mouth and cant afford to get anything done so im sure the rest are soon to follow!! I am just sick of getting all the bad luck, nothing ever goes right for me and i am just so tired of it, what is the point of giving someone life itf your just going to make them suffer!! I no longer belive things happen for a reason....i know everyone has there problems but i just feel as if i get all the bad luck and my life is officially (insert swear word of choice here!)

The only thing positive i can think of about my life is my friends, family and the support i get from everyone here but im starting to think its just not enough to get me through!

I just cant believe after having such a good time yesterday and things starting to finally look up for me my teeth are now falling apart ontop of everything else and i serously cant cope any more...whats the point i just give up!!

Sweetie dont give up. Like you said yesterday was a good day, and thats what life is about up and downs.

When you having a down it seems like it can never been good again butit will get better.

Jus try to stay positive x
 
Hi D_G we all have good and bad days. Your are still so young and have lots to look forward to you. You sound like you are still struggling to come to terms with your diagnosis, grieving for the life you thought you would have - is it possible for you to talk to a specialist counsellor to help you with this. Diabetes is not a walk in the park but its no longer the death sentence it was a century ago. You can live a happy and fulfilled life with it, though there will be days it gets in the way and you feel like tearing your hair out.

I will risk sounding like your Mother - but you need to get your teeth sorted. Are you on any benefits were you could get the treatment free. If you are not registered with an NHS dentist there may be an emergency dentist in your area who you can be referred to by NHS direct. The other option is is you have a teaching hospital nearby. If you are registered with an NHS dentist will you parents lend you the money for the treatment - you need to get those teeth sorted to prevent any abscesses.

Hope that things improve for you. Sending you hugs
 
Im sorry to know you are have a 'down' time, that is life its always up and down, try and stay on positive side - like you said your friends and family, you also need to need to remember positive things about yourself to get your self esteem back, be strong x
 
I'm missing loads of teeth and need so much work doing. My dentist is referring me to a specialist for sedation. No idea how I'm going to afford it.

Hope you get it sorted
 
I will risk sounding like your Mother - but you need to get your teeth sorted. Are you on any benefits were you could get the treatment free. If you are not registered with an NHS dentist there may be an emergency dentist in your area who you can be referred to by NHS direct. The other option is is you have a teaching hospital nearby. If you are registered with an NHS dentist will you parents lend you the money for the treatment - you need to get those teeth sorted to prevent any abscesses.

Hope that things improve for you. Sending you hugs

I think i have come to terms with my diagnosis, i was doing fine up till this morning, had a great day yesterday and things were looking up for once, and then this goes and happens to mess it all up again...whenever things start to go well for me life always kicks me back down :( i know i need to get them sorted but i have no way of doing so....i just cant afford it, i cant even afford the initial appointment that i will need to be able to actualy SEE the dintist so she can tell me what i need doing...im not entitled to any free work or benifits i have already tried when this happened a while back...

Thanks everyone sorry about the rant, you should see the one on facebook! i normally dont post such statuses but i was just so angry think il delete it anyway x
 
Hey Nikki,

Sorry to hear about this :( I know I panic when things happen to my teeth, I hate having bad teeth and havent been to the dentist for years because it's so expensive. Maybe you could try putting a bit of money away each week or month and save up to go to the dentist.

Try not to worry about it too much for now, keep your chin up 🙂 Hope things get better for you ASAP xx
 
I think i have come to terms with my diagnosis, i was doing fine up till this morning, had a great day yesterday and things were looking up for once, and then this goes and happens to mess it all up again...whenever things start to go well for me life always kicks me back down :( i know i need to get them sorted but i have no way of doing so....i just cant afford it, i cant even afford the initial appointment that i will need to be able to actualy SEE the dintist so she can tell me what i need doing...im not entitled to any free work or benifits i have already tried when this happened a while back...

Thanks everyone sorry about the rant, you should see the one on facebook! i normally dont post such statuses but i was just so angry think il delete it anyway x


Anyone can get free dental care at a teaching hospital like Margie says. Is there one near you?🙂Bev
 
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