I have to say, if I had someone coming to dinner who just told me they're diabetic, even with my knowledge I'm not sure what I'd do. Some diabetics want low/zero carb, others don't, some want no sugar, others want to eat a normal meal and bolus accordingly. It's very hard for others to judge what's appropriate.
I always think the approach of telling people you have diabetes is the wrong one, particularly if you don't furnish them with more information about what that specifically means for you.
I take the same approach as the guy in the video I posted - I ask people what's being served, and then I plan accordingly. Means I can get decent control and I don't disrupt someone else's plans.
I thought you were curbing the carbs Deux- from another post- or perhaps I misinterpreted it
Are you doing so to limit insulin dose and weight gain or mainly to improve control? Just wondering whether there had been much effect on the latter
I go through stages where I low-carb, both to lose weight and improve control. However, I'm not militant about it - there are days when I'll just eat what I like for the sake of my sanity or simply convenience. For instance, I've just got back from Thailand where I lived exclusively on rice and beer for a fortnight, so this week I'm on mostly salad, steaks and eggs to get myself back on track in time for Christmas. Generally yes, I aim for less than 50g of carbs a day but I don't make a particularly special effort to achieve this, it just sorta happens because my intrinsic preference for food has always been meat, butter, eggs and green veg anyway. Also, where possible, I'll make choices that make my life easier - for instance, instead of regular noodles, I'll just use shiritake ones if I'm cooking for myself because it's less effort, but that doesn't mean I won't eat regular noodles if that's what the takeaway offers.
The point I guess I'm making is I don't get worked up about food. It's there and I'll eat it. I don't really make any specific effort to eat in a certain way, it might just be that one week I won't buy a loaf of bread and get a few more eggs in than normal. Although I notionally am cutting down on carbs, I'm not going to be one of those people who panics when the only thing available is chips and sandwiches. That's one of the benefits of being a T1; I've got the tools that can cope with every situation.