Hi,
Ickle, I'm like you - v overweight and nothing ever seems to work. I have to say though, that only by ditching the diet books/magazines and opting for a simpler,healthier diet, and getting out with the dogs more, I've managed to lose almost 3 stones - it was REALLY hard to start with, and now, especially round pmt time, it can be a nightmare! It's taken well over a year, but I havn't really put any back on. Losing always gives you the boost to keep going - set backs and not realising your goal is a hard one though. I bet you're like me - could win mastermind on healthy eating an dieting.... but it's soo soo hard to put into practice.
I'm a comfort/boredom eater so I need to keep myself busy - even took up knitting as a way of keeping my hands too busy to reach for the biccies.
I still have a long way to go, the same again and more.... and, to be honest, I sometime feel I'll never reach that goal... but in the end, it's all very well doing it for your family etc but you have to do it for yourself. I got myself into the frame of mind that this "thing" is not gonna beat me, I want to live a long, happy and healthy life... and carrying on the way I was wasn't doing much to get me that.
My weight has hindered me so much in the past - unable to have kids being the main one, along with my distinct lack of confidence outside my comfort zone - After turning 40 and realising that there was probably more yrs behind me than in front, I don't want it to continue to ruin my future.
Are you the lady that had the thyroid problem? - that must be so hard when trying to lose weight. Anyway, I wish you well.... I hope 2009 is a new start for you!
Let me know how you're going! xxx
Ruth x
ps: homemade soups are my saviour!! LOL