Thank you for your story - it’s really helpful to hear and I recognise a lot of myself in it.@Rich_036 firstly welcome to the forum and like I did when I joined last October, the vast amount of knowledge here is impressive and very helpful.
I was diagnosed last October with a HbA1c of 86 and am now, according the diabetes nurse officially in remission. While I am older than you (63 at diagnosis) I was also around 84kg, wait was around 32/34 and at 6'2" definitely did not feel that I was in the diabetes risk zone. I also ran at least once and often twice a week, while also doing a lot of walking. When I met the diabetes nurse she called me an atypical diabetes patient. I also did exactly the same as you, cut the carbs to less than 50g/day for about a six weeks and upped my exercise levels which led to significant weight loss . I took 1 tablet of metformin reluctantly for 12 weeks following a bout of ill health in mid-November but stopped in mid February this year. My HbA1c is now down to 46 and if I am lucky it will fall further over the coming months.
My diet is a little carb richer now but still less than 130g/day and I have managed to put a about 1kg of weight back on but I am still under 80kg and there are days when it all comes off again and I am in the 73.5 to 74.5kg range. My waist is 31/32 which is a pain as I am slowly replacing my wardrobe to address this fall.
When I looked back at what may have triggered type 2, the fatty liver issue is certainly one possible factor as like you my weight was all around my waist. However, I also realised that my love of bread and rice may not have helped nor the lonely drives between home and the various places my projects took me which allowed me to eat sweet stuff or packaged foods like sausage rolls, Cornish pasties and other such delicacies. I also had to live away due to some projects and this meant eating out on a regular basis. Whether this is the cause of my diabetes I cannot definitively say, but the lifestyle clearly wasn't healthy even though I did some exercise at the time.
The other factor which may have been material for me, is stress. My work was often stressful and particularly the last six years before I retired in December last year. I notice that my BG may go up higher than normal when I get stressed even now (normally a bad round of golf) but in the main my BG tests are pretty good with a fasting level of around 5.4 to 6.4 and two hours after dinner in the 7.8 to 8.4 range.
You need to figure out what level of carbs you need to keep your BG in a good place, but it is likely to be higher than where you are now. Also check your calories to make sure that your intake is enough to maintain your lifestyle. I exercise most days and currently consume between 2,500 and 3,000 calories a day.
Eating such unhealthy foods has definitely been a feature. I have a busy and sometimes stressful job with quite a lot of time pressures, and often finishing late or starting early. Also have a toddler who makes life a joy but also costs me sleep and stress and, couples with my late work finishes and getting her to bed, often meant eating late and unhealthily too.
The more I look on it must just be T2D but I feel unfortunate to be younger and otherwise fit.
Definitely one thing on my mind is how after my crash diet I return to something that is higher carb than now, but also a ‘new normal’ happy medium that isn’t like the bad old days.