Hi Tricia, welcome to the forum
🙂In answer to your question, grapes are probably not the best fruit to eat and actually in terms of effects on your blood sugar levels chocolate is probably better - especially dark chocolate! Yes, it can be very confusing, unfortunately, and you will find yourself learning a great deal about food and the way your body deals with it.
I would suggest looking in our
Useful links thread, in particular I would recommend reading
Jennifer's Advice and
Maggie Davey's letter and also seeing if you can get a copy of
Type 2 Diabetes: The First Year by Gretchen Becker, which is an excellent introduction.
In terms of diet, what you need to aim for is food which will release its energy into your blood in a stable and steady manner. This isn't always easy to achieve, but one of the most practical approaches is to follow the GL Diet (Glycaemic Load). This will help you identify food that will have the gentlest effect on your blood sugar levels.
The GL Diet for Dummies is a good introduction. It's also a very good idea to follow a testing schedule as described in the links above so you can build up a picture of what foods work best for you and which are best avoided.
Please feel free to ask any questions you may have - everyone here is very friendly and helpful, and no question is considered 'silly', so fire away!
🙂