Hi,
I was just looking ro get some advise/reassurance. I'm currently 23+3 weeks pregnant and I've not felt any movement. I haven't seen my usual midwife for 4 weeks due to her being away and then us being away and then we got Covid! (I usually see her weekly due to having high BP, too). We saw the community midwife today and we expressed our concerns, she did a heartbeat check and all was okay with that and she said she felt the baby move, but I didn't. Everything was okay with our 20 week scan, too.
So now I'm stressing that there's something wrong with me and if I don't notice any pattern changes or anything and something happens to the baby I won't know and I'll never forgive myself. My wife and I have been on a very long and painful journey to get this far and its really worrying me.
I'm due to be seen in the diabetic ante natel joint clinic on Wesnesday and I will talk to them, too. Has anyone experienced anything similar? I'm told I've got to wait until I'm about 26/27 weeks before it's a concern to them and I'm due a growth scan at 28 weeks but that seems a lifetime away right now.
The community midwife did say to try ice cold drinks and watch my tummy for movement which we will try when we're home, but this pregnancy journey has been so hard and we were really looking forward to these moments where it almost makes it feel real and like it's actually going to happen.
Thank you for reading.
I was just looking ro get some advise/reassurance. I'm currently 23+3 weeks pregnant and I've not felt any movement. I haven't seen my usual midwife for 4 weeks due to her being away and then us being away and then we got Covid! (I usually see her weekly due to having high BP, too). We saw the community midwife today and we expressed our concerns, she did a heartbeat check and all was okay with that and she said she felt the baby move, but I didn't. Everything was okay with our 20 week scan, too.
So now I'm stressing that there's something wrong with me and if I don't notice any pattern changes or anything and something happens to the baby I won't know and I'll never forgive myself. My wife and I have been on a very long and painful journey to get this far and its really worrying me.
I'm due to be seen in the diabetic ante natel joint clinic on Wesnesday and I will talk to them, too. Has anyone experienced anything similar? I'm told I've got to wait until I'm about 26/27 weeks before it's a concern to them and I'm due a growth scan at 28 weeks but that seems a lifetime away right now.
The community midwife did say to try ice cold drinks and watch my tummy for movement which we will try when we're home, but this pregnancy journey has been so hard and we were really looking forward to these moments where it almost makes it feel real and like it's actually going to happen.
Thank you for reading.