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time to decide - ivf again or decline

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I wish you all the luck in the world, Di. My best friend is currently going through IVF too, I hope you both get the child you so very much deserve.
 
Bless you Di - fingers crossed for you! 🙂 I hope this encourages you - my s-i-l & her partner tried for a long while to conceive via IVF without success, then went down the adoption route, adopting their first child. A few years later & their second child was a surprise baby! 🙂 It's strange how things work out sometimes. My hubby is also adopted (as is his sister). Their parents always told them that other parents just had to put up with whatever children they got, but they (hubby & his sis) were special, as they were chosen - a really beautiful way of putting it I think!

Wishing you all the best, thinking of you. xx
 
everything crossed for you 🙂

Keep us updated, we are all here for you xx
 
hi i personally would go for ivf i could not even thinking about trying even though my consultant put me on the list because i had so much surgery already that the risk for me was too high doctors are not worried about this is your life not theirs so we never tried ivf and graham arrived after 6 years and now bump again after 7 years if you dont have other health issues a part from diabetes i would try again
 
Thanks everyone for your kind words.

We have decided to keep this between the two of us for the next cycle, because it is so emothional etc and I think the sad reaction from everyone else when we told people it failed is just as painful to see as dealing with the actual failure.
 
Good luck to you both.🙂Bev x
 
Dizzy

Have you and your partner had the immunology tests? If you have had IVF attempts without any success, there may be a chance that your body is producing NK cells.

Regards
 
Hi Bailey, I don't know if we have. I'm assuming not. I will enquire when I go to the hosp next week.

thanks x
 
Dizzydi said:
Hi Bailey, I don't know if we have. I'm assuming not. I will enquire when I go to the hosp next week.

thanks x
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you are welcome....you normally have to have a test that is sent to Chicago (blood samples)....you would be surprised how common it is to have two sets of genes that arent compatiable without medical intervention.. x
 
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