Robster65
Senior Member
- Relationship to Diabetes
- Type 1
Written by Adrienne - many thanks from all the Moderators!
Hiya I have been asked to write a ‘sticky’ for the parents, especially the newly diagnosed families. So welcome to all.
A bit about me and mine first. We've been at this 11 years now, my daughter is 11 years old and had her first insulin injection at 5 weeks old so we've been there and got that t-shirt through all the ages and now have hormones, yippee they are fun, NOT !
It is just me and my daughter at home so understand the single parents as well and how hard it is.
From diagnosis day for a while you will be in your diabetes bubble where your world has been rocked and all you are focusing on is diabetes. This is a good thing actually whilst you get used to it all before you move to the next stage. Others don’t always understand this and why you are focusing on diabetes all the time. That is hard to swallow sometimes but I think back to ‘before diabetes’ came to stay and I hold my hand up and say I had absolutely no idea whatsoever what diabetes meant or was. I didn’t even know there was more than one type so your friends and indeed some family will be on that very page and not have a clue.
Lots of newly diagnosed children are in honeymoon to begin with so levels are behaving themselves pretty much. I never know whether honeymoon is a good thing or not. Those children that go into DKA on diagnosis don't seem to have a honeymoon so straight in at the deepend. I never know whether honeymoon just gives a false sense of good numbers and you get the shock of your lives (once again) when honeymoon is over. This honeymoon means that the pancreas is still working a tiny bit. It can last different times for different children.
However the diabetes bubble gives you time to learn. Knowledge and education is power. I learn all the time, still. Things change all the time with information and technology.
Some of you will already be carb counting which is a huge plus point whatever regime you are on. In theory every diagnosed family should be taught carb counting in those first few days of diagnosis and it becomes part of the journey.
However for whatever reason some people are not taught immediately to carb count but you can teach yourself this. If you can't get hold of the team then email them, and keep emailing them, they are supposed to be working for you and helping you. However you can learn, I'm self taught, there are loads of us who are. The members on this forum will be happy to give you a general idea to get you started. There are books and the best one at the moment is also an iPhone app and now an Android app. It is called Carbs and Cals. Google it, they have a website (http://www.carbsandcals.com/) as well. It is a visual book as well as numbers. (Oh by the way I don’t want to hear any excuses of ‘I’m rubbish at maths’. If I can learn it and I was the one with the calculator in the pub to work out my darts score, then anyone can learn it ).
Personally I found the idea of carb counting forever the most daunting thing. It took a few weeks to get my head around it and then it all falls into place. There are rules of thumb you can follow as a starting point on ratios ie how many units to how many carbs. My daughter is on 1 unit for every 5g carbs at breakfast, 1 unit to every 9g carbs at lunch and 1 unit to every 16g carbs at tea time. So you find your starting point and tweak from there.
Hiya I have been asked to write a ‘sticky’ for the parents, especially the newly diagnosed families. So welcome to all.
A bit about me and mine first. We've been at this 11 years now, my daughter is 11 years old and had her first insulin injection at 5 weeks old so we've been there and got that t-shirt through all the ages and now have hormones, yippee they are fun, NOT !
It is just me and my daughter at home so understand the single parents as well and how hard it is.
From diagnosis day for a while you will be in your diabetes bubble where your world has been rocked and all you are focusing on is diabetes. This is a good thing actually whilst you get used to it all before you move to the next stage. Others don’t always understand this and why you are focusing on diabetes all the time. That is hard to swallow sometimes but I think back to ‘before diabetes’ came to stay and I hold my hand up and say I had absolutely no idea whatsoever what diabetes meant or was. I didn’t even know there was more than one type so your friends and indeed some family will be on that very page and not have a clue.
Lots of newly diagnosed children are in honeymoon to begin with so levels are behaving themselves pretty much. I never know whether honeymoon is a good thing or not. Those children that go into DKA on diagnosis don't seem to have a honeymoon so straight in at the deepend. I never know whether honeymoon just gives a false sense of good numbers and you get the shock of your lives (once again) when honeymoon is over. This honeymoon means that the pancreas is still working a tiny bit. It can last different times for different children.
However the diabetes bubble gives you time to learn. Knowledge and education is power. I learn all the time, still. Things change all the time with information and technology.
Some of you will already be carb counting which is a huge plus point whatever regime you are on. In theory every diagnosed family should be taught carb counting in those first few days of diagnosis and it becomes part of the journey.
However for whatever reason some people are not taught immediately to carb count but you can teach yourself this. If you can't get hold of the team then email them, and keep emailing them, they are supposed to be working for you and helping you. However you can learn, I'm self taught, there are loads of us who are. The members on this forum will be happy to give you a general idea to get you started. There are books and the best one at the moment is also an iPhone app and now an Android app. It is called Carbs and Cals. Google it, they have a website (http://www.carbsandcals.com/) as well. It is a visual book as well as numbers. (Oh by the way I don’t want to hear any excuses of ‘I’m rubbish at maths’. If I can learn it and I was the one with the calculator in the pub to work out my darts score, then anyone can learn it ).
Personally I found the idea of carb counting forever the most daunting thing. It took a few weeks to get my head around it and then it all falls into place. There are rules of thumb you can follow as a starting point on ratios ie how many units to how many carbs. My daughter is on 1 unit for every 5g carbs at breakfast, 1 unit to every 9g carbs at lunch and 1 unit to every 16g carbs at tea time. So you find your starting point and tweak from there.
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