I tested quite intensively for the first 3 months, backed off a bit for the following 3 months and it kind of tailed off after that. As others have mentioned, once you have learned what the effect is of a particular meal, you are likely to find the meals which work for you and what to avoid.
So as others above I don't test all that often since it wouldnt tell me anything I don't already know. It is handy from time to time just to confirm that my experience is still correct or perhaps things have changed a little since I last tested a particular meal. But I think we all tend to eat fairly consistently anyway.
New meals, new foods, new circumstances and of course illness mean more testing, but most of the time I don't test much. Weetabix for breakfast pushed my BG up by 7mmol when I was diagnosed 6 years ago. An omelette pushes it up by 1mmol. Neither of those numbers have changed over time so I don't need to keep confirming it.
And they reckon diabetes is progressive lol
Scarlet, the reason you were getting stressed is that you were not testing for any real reason. It looks as if the advice you were given on testing is the same nonsense that many of us are given at first. So testing seems pointless and stressful because nothing changes. But....
....used properly testing is the most effective tool for a T2 in controlling diabetes. It also puts all the power and control in your hands. Instead of just hoping that the advised diet and exercise suggestions of your medical team will work, you can see what really DOES work for you - and everyone reacts slightly differently to the same foods and exercise. YOU learn what works for you and what does not. YOU decide what your (blood glucose) BG is likely to be an hour after the meal. Its not "hit and hope". The power is in your hands.
Have a read of this, try it with just breakfasts for a week and see how much difference it can make to you:
Test before eating and an hour after. Then look at the
difference between the two.
Hint: My nurse, doc and dietitian all recommended weetabix and porridge. Give those a try. However I now have omelettes, bacon, eggs and other protein-based foods. So try those too and see the difference
Once you've tried that an seen how much difference it can make, have a read of this:
http://diabetesforum.org.uk/jennifers-advice