Interesting query,
@Pookie. When I was a youngster my Mum added some sugar or naturally found sweet alternatives to any stewed fruit (and we lived in the heart of Staffordshire where it felt that all food only grew locally) so I expected all stewed fruit to be sweet, sometimes unacceptably sweet. At some point in my late teens or very early 20s I was introduced to fruit stewed without any form of sweetening added, or if it was felt some was needed (eg rhubarb, gooseberries) then raisins or sultanas might be added. This introduced me to a wider variation of flavouring and allowed me to realise that even simple fresh fruits could have complex flavours enhanced when stewed (or poached) with other natural food types. Hence ginger rather than anything blatantly sweet with strawberries or rhubarb, to create a unique alteration of the primary fruit.
Even before I became diabetic I invariably would not add anything sweetening to even rhubarb or gooseberries. But every once in a while these seasonal crops might be exceptionally tart and thus not so acceptable. But adding a measured amount of raisins, which can become a measured amount of carbs from the packaging, to a large pan of stewing rhubarb still adds up to an almost insignificant total amount of carbs per 100gm. So even if a portion of 200gms at 2, 3 or even 6% of naturally sweetened stewed rhubarb is still only adding a small amount of carbs to the portion of dessert and as someone wholly insulin dependent even those few gms would not need me to take bolus for just that because, probably like most T2s, such a dessert would metabolise sufficiently slowly to be manageable without adding to the glucose potential for that day.
I think what I'm saying in a clumsy way is 3 things:
First you will probably always need to be more aware of those carbs that are likely to exceed your own body's ability to manage them without help. So if your immediate responses now bring you into remission in a few weeks or months time, you are still likely to need some lifestyle changes for any foreseeable future.
Secondly being aware of which food types are big carb providers (and thus big glucose generators) and which are 'small or low' carb hitters and in the wider scheme of things insignificant. There are generalised % carb contents for pretty well all individual foodstuffs and for many food combinations before or more normally after cooking. However some of those % carb figures don't always faithfully apply to every single one of us; we are all different and sometimes get quite surprisingly different metabolism results. So you have to find these things out for yourself.
Thirdly while my Grandmother always said look after the pennies and the pounds will look after themselves, I don't think that is such a good proposition for containing and/or managing carb intake. I think manage the big carbs first, in whatever way works for you, then focus on the smaller carb providing food if it's really necessary. For me stewed fruits, however sweetened, will still be small carb hitters.
I have to take insulin, my body isn't going to help me one iota. In principle I can eat unlimited carbs and I 'just' need to inject the appropriate amount of insulin at the right time. In practice I generally avoid big doses of insulin because the bigger that dose a greater risk arises from too much or too little insulin - whether from the calculation and timing that I have some control over or the insulin injection site, insulin quality and a few other secondary aspects that are not readily in my control. So I do constantly give consideration to big carb hitters, not just a lot of the time, and I do think about swaps (eg grated cauliflower rather than rice) as well as portion sizes. This has become part of my new lifestyle. Whether T1, T2 or T3c: despite best efforts none of us can achieve ideal BG management and we all have to just gracefully accept less satisfactory days and move on to tomorrow, particularly if we want to live relatively normal lives and not become hermits.
Arguably it's much more acceptable for me, as I approach 75, to have lousy D days (which will inevitably have some accumulative consequence); but that doesn't make me blatantly neglectful of my overall health considerations. The hardest part for me, I think, is in finding a sensible balance, without becoming obsessed about it all - which I could do if I don't remind myself not to.