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Oliver1992

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Just though talk to you guys as had bad week bg levels been all over the place been week since been out off hospital , fallen out with my father complete arseh**le , doesn't even seen take me serious bout trying sort my diabetes out , and what not , have no support so just though talk to u lot as feeling very depressed and upset feel like giving up
 
Sorry you are having such a tough time. Sending hugs and good wishes.
Linda
 
Sorry your having a bad time Oliver, it must be tough for you. Dont think about giving up because of other people though, its your health, not theirs, and it will be you that feels better in the end, and with the knowledge and confidence that you did it despite the lack of help.

It would be so nice if others did understand, but sadly its a fact of life many dont. Just do your best, and maybe your father will see what is required in the end.
 
Hi there,
So sorry to hear you are not well at the moment. Can really sympathise as I go through phases of very high levels due to illness on a regular basis. Have you spoken to your diabetic nurse who can help you try and sort them out. I'm sure once you are feeling better your levels will start to come down you will feel better within yourself. Keep at it🙂
Natb
 
Thanks I just try my best to eat properly and my dad just always make remarks at me what just make me angry , just feel like got no 1 since been in hosp I given up smoking and drinking but my dad doesn't seem care what i do , but I've got you guys to cheer me up on my Friday night
 
Hello Oliver. I'm sorry you are feeling so low. I'm sure your bg levels will settle. I hope you are feeling a bit brighter today.
 
We all have times like this the thing is focus on the positives and try not to let all the negatives pull you in, take it from someone who has been there and got the t-shirt when it comes to lulls in mood im one of the worlds worse, have you got any hobbies/interests you can get focused on? xx

Bare with it Oliver at the minute things seem so bad but I do believe things will get better x
 
Not as easy as that steff I get no surspport of any family really only my mums side but rarely see her , only on phone just I comfort eaten to day eaten rubbish was doin well most week eating healthy just feel so depressed and lonely up north
 
Sorry to hear what you're going through Oliver. Are you able to stay with your mum/relatives on your mums side for a while for some added support?xx
 
Nope don't think she let me as u wouldnt able to pay for me food and that :( worst feeling ever
 
Oliver1992 said:
Just though talk to you guys as had bad week bg levels been all over the place been week since been out off hospital , fallen out with my father complete arseh**le , doesn't even seen take me serious bout trying sort my diabetes out , and what not , have no support so just though talk to u lot as feeling very depressed and upset feel like giving up
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dear oliver you're obviously hurting badly at the moment, but don't give up on yourself, you are worth a whole lot more 🙂 I'm sure you will find some peace Oliver, it will take time, but there have probably been a lot of people out there, feeling exactly the way you are feeling right now. Take care Sheena
 
Yeah I just feel like I can't do any but just sit in my room and think :( which makes it worse and lonely
 
I'm very sorry to hear you don't feel supported at home Oliver, especially after you've been through such a torrid time at the hospital. You'll get lots of support here from people who do understand, so please come one whenever you want, whether it's to ask a certain question or just have a chat about things in general.

Have you been able to talk to a DSN yet about your plan to gain conntrol over your diabetes? If not, then I would suggest you do so as soon as you can. They are specially trained to listen to the problems you are having and try and find ways to help you in your own unique situation (we all have a relationship with diabetes, but in many different ways - your DSN will know you best).

Try to take small steps and not be overwhelmed by everything. It's natural after your experience that you want to make things right as soon as you can, but it sounds like you have a lot to cope with so it is better to take things day by day and tick off your achievements - keep your food diary, take your tests and injections and just try the best you can and I am sure things will gradually become clearer and improve for you.
 
Oliver1992 said:
Yeah I just feel like I can't do any but just sit in my room and think :( which makes it worse and lonely
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Oliver I would like you to have this little verse:- I hope brings a little comfort.

When you're lonely
I wish you love

When you're sad
I wish you Joy

When you're discouraged
I wish you Hope

When you're spirit is low
I wish you Beauty

When you're troubled
I wish you Peace​

Sheena
 
Thank you every one for bein so nice an cheering me up , thanks Steff made me smile 🙂 , I find it hard to tell nurse my problems tho and have appointment on 23rd for my new diabetic nurse which haven't meet yet
 
Is that 23rd April? St Georges day, be strong and take control, never mind anyone telling otherwise. Yeah, it'll be tough, Friday night, but believe in yourself and stick with it. We've all been there to some degree (((((Oliver))))))
 
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