Hi sanric6, welcome to the forum🙂 I moved your post out into a new thread so it doesn't get lost!
It's a misconception that any kind of food or drink is 'forbidden' with diabetes. What you do need to do, however, is try and eat healthily - a good, varied diet with plenty of fruit and vegetables. Alcohol is fine in moderation, and you are allowed the occasional treat too!
The main aim is to try and discover which foods tend to raise your blood sugar levels the most - these are the foods you need to avoid. Generally, a low GI (glycaemic index) diet is the best, as low GI foods digest slowly and do not raise your levels as much. High GI foods are things like white bread, white rice, sugary foods etc.
Do you have an appointment to see a dietician? If not, ask the nurse when you see her and she will be able to give you some guidance. Try not to worry, it will take a little time to get used to everything but nothing dreadful is going to happen overnight. You may need to modify your lifestyle and the things you eat, but this will hopefully become a way of life to you - many people find they are actually healthier in the long run because they now have to consider carefully what they eat and drink, and become more active.🙂