Hi mumof3things, welcome to the forum
🙂 Sorry to hear you are struggling

What sort of levels are you getting? Many of our members find the best approach is to write a food diary, recording all the carbohydrates you eat and drink each day, then reviewing this to see if there are areas where you might substitute items for more 'diabetes-friendly' alternatives, or reduce portion sizes. Using a meter, you can test before and after eating to find out what items you tolerate well, and what you need to reduce or exclude in your diet. Have a look at
Test,Review, Adjust by Alan S for an explanation of how to do this efficiently
🙂 I'd also suggest reading
Jennifer's Advice and
Maggie Davey's letter, and perhaps getting a copy of
Type 2 Diabetes: The First Year by Gretchen Becker - all highly recommended sources of information which should help with your understanding of what you need to be watching out for and how best to tackle it
🙂 To further increase your library (!!) I'd suggest getting a copy of the
GL Diet for Dummies, which explains a method of selecting and combining foods that will have a slow and steady impact on your blood sugar levels
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It can take a little while to learn what works best for you, but once you have established the basic items that you eat regularly and can tolerate well, you won't need to test as often. The problem with a lot of healthcare professionals is that they send you away and tell you to eat a 'healthy diet' without really explaining what that is, or possibly suggesting items that you actually can't tolerate well. Everyone's tolerances are different, so it's a very individual thing - there are obviously some very basic truths, such as not overloading on carbs, especially sugary or white flour products, but there are many other less obvious things that you will need to determine for yourself whether they are on or off the menu!
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Please let us know if you have any questions and we will do our best to help!
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