Really Upset

[cazscot]

Got a letter in from the Assisted Conception Service and I dont meet two of the essential criteria (have to be under 38 years old and bmi of less than 35).

We are devistated, without going into too much detail, I know there is absolutley no chance of us having a child naturally...

 

[Steff]

Caz im so so sorry for both you and your husband, words cant express how sad i am to read this news..I hope you and hubby have a big cuddle,from what i know of you on this forum you will make a fantastic mum...xxx hugs

 

[Northerner]

Really sorry to hear this Carol.

 

[shirl]

So sorry for you and your husband Caz, words cannot make this any better for you both, but please know that I am thinking of you!

Take good care, lv shirl x

 

[tracey w]

Sorry to hear this

I know how well you are doing with your weight, do not give up hope. Is there any possibility you may be able to fund this in the future?

I know it may be too soon and raw but what about other options like adoption or fostering?

 

[am64]

bless you and your hubby caz x that is so sad big hugs x thinking of you hunny x

 

[Hazel]

Oh Carol, I know how disappointed you must be.

We will talk soon, PM me if you need to chat

 

[Twitchy]

I'm really, really sorry to hear this.

I know it may be too soon to think about other options, but for what it's worth, my hubby & his sister are both (separately) adopted. He has the best relationship with his parents (ie the lovely wonderful people who adopted him) of anyone I have ever known. They were always open with him & his sister about the fact that they were adopted, and told them "other parents get stuck with the kids they get. You are special - we chose you." It always brings a lump to my throat to think about it, they gave him & his sister the most amazing gift of a new life & a loving family. May be worth thinking about when you are ready... meanwhile sending you a big hug ((())).

Twitchy xxx

 

[bev]

I wouldnt even try to say something to make you feel better - but I just wanted you to know that from what I *know* of you on here you would make a lovely mum and maybe one day you will be - however that happens.🙂Bev x

 

[Dizzydi]

So sorry to hear your news. I know how devastated u feel. If u want to chat pm me. Sending u my love Di x

 

[rachelha]

So sorry to hear that. Big hugs

 

[cazscot]

Thanks everybody xxx

 

[Sugarbum]

Thtas really sad carol, so sorry to hear this. My love to you xx

 

[Smit]

Don't really know what to say other than sorry. This forum is like one big family and I know everyone will be thinking about you. Big kisses x x x

 

[traceycat]

Don't really know what to say other than sorry. This forum is like one big family and I know everyone will be thinking about you. Big kisses x x x

im so sorry to hear your news carol hun.
big hugs xxx

 

[PhoebeC]

All my love to you and your husband. xxxx

 

[Akasha]

Big hugs!!

 

[grahams mum]

Got a letter in from the Assisted Conception Service and I dont meet two of the essential criteria (have to be under 38 years old and bmi of less than 35).

We are devistated, without going into too much detail, I know there is absolutley no chance of us having a child naturally...

i am sure you are very upset but did you think about adopting a close friend of mine after years of trying IVF and a really premature birth they adopted twins a boy and a girl 13 months they are so happy

 

[bigpurpleduck]

I'm so sorry Caz.

I know there's nothing else I can do or say, except send you big hugs.

 

[Sheilagh1958]

Only just recently joined the site but so sorry to hear your news Carol. Hope your luck changes in the future