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Thinking of you both while you wait - just hugs.
 
The bleeding is getting heavier and starting to clot. There’s no way this is a happy ending. It’s done.
 
Heart broken for you. So very sorry!
 
I’m so very sorry for you. Much love.
 
So sorry to hear this.
Take care of each other.
Keep in touch.
 
Definitely miscarried. Confirmation scan this morning. I am just heart broke. After all the work I put in to get myself into a better and healthier position. I just don’t understand it at all.
 
I’m so sorry to hear your news
Nothing I can say will make you feel better but I’m sending you lots of virtual hugs x
 
Miscarriage, especially at an early stage, is surprisingly common, but people tend not to talk about it, so others do not realise how common it is. Probably nothing to do with your diabetes. It's the same with the death of a child at whatever age. Our son died at 33, and it surprised us how many people shared a similar bereavement with us that we had not previously known about.
Look after each other in your grief, and be very kind to yourselves. Try very hard not to blame yourself for this loss, you did all you could.
 
I am so sorry. The good news is you can GET pregnant. It’s little comfort at the moment but is a good sign for the longer term. I’ve only had one miscarriage and two children but many of my friends have had multiple miscarriages, often for no discernible reason. Take some time to grieve. Have a chat with the consultant. Carry on with looking after yourself. And then when you’re ready try again.
 
Merry, please be gentle with yourself and don't beat yourself up about this. None of this is your fault it is just a cruel twist that nature has given you. Be kind to yourself.
 
Just another a (((((((((((big hug))))))))) for you both again for today.
 
I am so SO sorry to hear your sad news @merrymunky. Thinking of you both. Love and hugs to you.

We miscarried at a very early stage when we were first trying and as others have said it is much more common than people think, but is rarely talked about.

Hope you can take some time to be kind to yourself.
 
Rhsb
everydayupsanddowns said:
I am so SO sorry to hear your sad news @merrymunky. Thinking of you both. Love and hugs to you.

We miscarried at a very early stage when we were first trying and as others have said it is much more common than people think, but is rarely talked about.

Hope you can take some time to be kind to yourself.
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Thank you. This is not my first rodeo though. Second time in less than a year. This one has been dealt with so differently though. Our first at 16 weeks was obviously a huge physical and emotional trauma. This time we’ve just been left to get on with it and it is horrible.
 
Oh @merrymunky . I have just read your post, and can only send you and your husband {hugs}.
 
merrymunky said:
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Thank you. This is not my first rodeo though. Second time in less than a year. This one has been dealt with so differently though. Our first at 16 weeks was obviously a huge physical and emotional trauma. This time we’ve just been left to get on with it and it is horrible.
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Just read all your posts . So sorry to read your news. Don't really know what else to say.
 
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