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@East Riding Adventurer
Sorry to hear your diabetes has got a bit uppity while the pandemic has prevented you from getting the regular checks. You aren’t aline in that. Many people have found the lockdowns and the difficulty in accessing checks and appointments tough.
Do you know what stage your kidneys are at? I think there are varying shades from ‘a bit of protein in the urine’ through 4 stages of defined kidney disease.
Hopefully with meds to help keep your BP down, a little work on your BG levels and some weight loss you can slow any progression of impending nasties. You may possibly even see some rollback - the body is an amazing thing.
One common tactic is to begin with a food diary for a couple of weeks. Note down everything you eat and drink, and do some packet squinting, weighing, and measuring to calculate (or make a decent estimate of) the
total carbohydrate content of your meals and snacks. Total carb content is far more helpful than ‘of which sugars’ because all carbohydrate will be broken down to glucose in the bloodstream fairly rapidly.
This might sound like a bit of a faff, but it will be the carbs in your diet that have the biggest impact on your blood glucose levels, so it’s really worthwhile getting to know where they are lurking in your menu, which meals are the ‘big hitters’, and which little snacks and nibbles are adding up to a whole meal’s worth of extra carbs.
You might decide to make some tweaks, changes and swaps based on what you find. Perhaps aiming to reduce your carb intake by 25% to begin with and see how that goes. Then maybe another 25% after you’ve got used to it. It’s not about avoiding all carbs entirely (which is pretty much impossible - there is trace carbohydrate in lettuce!) it’s about getting your menu to a place where your body can process it properly, keep your BG levels in range, meet your weight loss aspirations, and give you a sustainable and enjoyable way of eating long-term.
Good luck, and let us know how you get on
🙂