Welcome to the forum
@Melanieb
Glad you have found us!
Getting a diagnosis with diabetes can be really tough, so be kind to yourself and give yourself time to adjust. Some people have a more difficult time and feel more overwhelmed than others, and whatever you are feeling is completely valid.
It’s also very common to feel a bit ‘knocked sideways’ and uncertain about the best way forward. Comparing notes, hints, tips and experiences with the friendly folks on the forum can be really helpful. You will see a whole range of different approaches and strategies, and you will gradually work out your own path with advice from your surgery, GP and practice nurse, perhaps some shared experiences from here, and your own trial and error.
Keeping a food diary can be really helpful. Note down everything you eat and drink for a week or two, and do some packet-squinting, weighing, and measuring to work out an estimate of the carb content in different meals and snacks. Total carbohydrates are a far more helpful number than ’of which sugars’.
It might sound like a bit of a faff, but you will quickly see how the carbs are distributed in your meals, where they lurk unexpectedly, and which meals have the highest carb load. Modifying portion sizes and perhaps trying a few swaps and tweaks can help to gently reduce the likely impact of your ‘big hitters’.
You don’t have to give up all carbs entirely (which isn’t really possible, there are traces of carb in lettuce!), but reducing portion sizes, and choosing the types of carbs that suit your body best can make a huge difference.
Good luck, and let us know how you get on
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