Hi Flossypops, welcome to the forum
🙂 There certainly is a lot of confusing and often conflicting information about diabetes out there. I'd recommend reading the 'tried and tested'
Maggie Davey's letter and also getting a copy of
Type 2 Diabetes: The First Year by Gretchen Becker - these don't make any false or misleading claims, but are very positive and clear guides to managing diabetes, especially in the early months
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Breakfast cereals for most people are off the menu, I'm afraid - as you say they all contain high amounts of carbs and can cause high 'spikes' in blood sugar levels. Many people are more insulin-resistant in the mornings, meaning it is probably the worst time of day to be eating carb-based meals, unfortunately

Some people are OK with porridge (the 'proper' kind, not the instant oats you can buy), but others have to avoid it. Better alternatives are protein-based breakfasts such as scrambled eggs, mushrooms, bacon (yup!) etc. which contain few carbs. The main problem with diabetes is that people's tolerances for things can vary considerably. Ideally, the only way to discover your own tolerances is to test your blood glucose levels before and after eating - have you been given a meter and a prescription for test strips? Read
Test,Review, Adjust by Alan S for an explanation of how testing helps you tailor your diet to your tolerances
🙂 If your nurse/GP says you don't need a meter, then it's worth getting one and buying the strips yourself for a while so you can work out what works for you and what doesn't. The cheapest option we have come across is the
SD Codefree Meter which has
test strips at around £8 for 50.
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Well done on your weight loss to date!
🙂 Please feel free to ask any questions you may have - everyone is very friendly and happy to help, we've all been where you are now!
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