Welcome to the forum
@CAGreen
Sounds like you are making great progress with changes to your menu - but yes it can be confusing!
One of the tricky things is that different people can react very differently to exactly the same foods, so there is no one ‘safe’ list of things which are fine, and others which must be avoided.
As folks have suggested, it may be that relatively small and permanent changes to your menu may be sufficient to allow your body to process food properly.
Lots of new members find that keeping a food diary can be really helpful in the early weeks, writing down everything you eat and drink, along with an estimate of the total carbs (not just sugars) involved. This can be a really useful learning exercose as it begins to give you a sense of where the main sources of carbs are found, and which of your meals may benefit from some tweaks.
If you want to dig into real detail of how different meals are affecting your BG as an indididual, you may choose to get hold of a BG meter. This doesn’t suit everyone, but it is an immediate and very visual way to see how food and BG interact. You can check just before eating, and 2hrs after the first bite, and see the difference - the ‘meal rise’. Ideally you would aim for this rise to be 2-3mmol/L or less. If you see bigger rises, you can target those meals for changes, but you can continue to eat any foods (even supposedly tricky ones) where your BG remains within 2-3 - while recognising that obviously BG outcome is only one way of assessing how healthy a food is!
If you’d like to try this approach, you will probalby need to self fund your BG meter, because GPs only tend to prescribe meters for people on certain meds. The meters are fairly inexpensive, but the ongoing strip cost can vary wildly. The most affordable meters members here have found are the
SD Gluco Navii or the
Spirit Tee2 - which both have test strips at around £8 for 50
Good luck and let us know how you get on
🙂