New to the forum.

[Kym17]

Hi all
I am just looking for support from other parents that understand the worries we have on an almost daily basis. My son is 22 and has type1 and I worry that he is not managing it at the moment. Every time I try to help he thinks I am interfering. 11 years in and still worrying on a daily basis. Is it just me or is this something other parents feel?

 

[Ralph-YK]

Welcome to the forum Kym.

 

[trophywench]

At 22 I had left home cos I was married and we were buying our own home. However - if my mum had tried to suggest this that or the other to me - I'd have thought she was interfering too - even though I hadn't a clue that's simply part and parcel of having kids. It only starts with giving birth - not finishes! He doesn't know that either, does he?

Why do you think he isn't taking care of himself?

 

[Ditto]

Hello and welcome to the forum @Kym17 🙂 He'll be 70odd and you'll still be worrying about him and interfering, comes with the job.

 

[Inka]

Welcome @Kym17 🙂

What in particular is making you worry your son isn’t managing his diabetes? Does he live with you or elsewhere?

As you’ve probably realised, it’s a hard line to tread between being concerned and ‘interfering’. The best thing to do is be supportive and let him know you’re there if he needs support or wants to vent.