Jonathan_15Jan1969
Member
- Relationship to Diabetes
- Type 1
Have had diabetes since 15th Jan 1969 as appears in my username.
Visited but never joined but thinking about things I feel you don't always get information where you SHOULD get it. It's rarely offered. So a forum of likewise people who actually have the illness are the true experts and a better source of information in my opinion.
To be honest over the years you have a consultant on your appointment card but never see them. You see student doctors more often and you say it's ok for them to be there but it makes you less forthcoming.
Especially if you are shy like myself. Not comfortable with people I don't know, and less likely to have courage to ask. More outgoing in an online environment.My last consultant retired after about 20 years and I think I saw him three times. I'd probably have been more comfortable if I saw him every time.
I'm maybe a bit cynical but I'm of the opinion that experts may know about the illness but they can't truly understand it. Experts can make you feel bad about yourself (not all - some have brilliant bedside manner but above average for me).
We're often better behaved with our lifestyle than the none diabetic population, but the illness can be a bit indiscriminate and land right in our face. Then we're judged by those who shouldn't judge.
But seriously, I think you can learn more from a forum of likewise 'sufferers' than someone who doesn't really know what you're going through and cannot ever do so without living it first hand.
I'd love a diabetic consultant - meaning a consultant who is a diabetic - but have never met one.
Plus being shy prefer a get in, get out and not hang around diabetic visit, so rarely ask questions to cause me to be any longer in a place I don't want to be.
Unless they offer new information, which I don't think has ever happened in these last few decades at least, where can you learn anything if you don't like to verbally ask?
I've found out on here about the flash gm and how it's to become available on the NHS and it's likely if I hadn't it will never be offered but now I can indicate an interest in the future. I'm a geek who works in I.T. and love my gadgets
So hello to you all, long term and novice, T1 and T2 diabetics alike, kindred spirits one and all, and your thoughtful, helpful and none judgemental information posts which I have read a lot of in the past.
Jonathan
Visited but never joined but thinking about things I feel you don't always get information where you SHOULD get it. It's rarely offered. So a forum of likewise people who actually have the illness are the true experts and a better source of information in my opinion.
To be honest over the years you have a consultant on your appointment card but never see them. You see student doctors more often and you say it's ok for them to be there but it makes you less forthcoming.
Especially if you are shy like myself. Not comfortable with people I don't know, and less likely to have courage to ask. More outgoing in an online environment.My last consultant retired after about 20 years and I think I saw him three times. I'd probably have been more comfortable if I saw him every time.
I'm maybe a bit cynical but I'm of the opinion that experts may know about the illness but they can't truly understand it. Experts can make you feel bad about yourself (not all - some have brilliant bedside manner but above average for me).
We're often better behaved with our lifestyle than the none diabetic population, but the illness can be a bit indiscriminate and land right in our face. Then we're judged by those who shouldn't judge.
But seriously, I think you can learn more from a forum of likewise 'sufferers' than someone who doesn't really know what you're going through and cannot ever do so without living it first hand.
I'd love a diabetic consultant - meaning a consultant who is a diabetic - but have never met one.
Plus being shy prefer a get in, get out and not hang around diabetic visit, so rarely ask questions to cause me to be any longer in a place I don't want to be.
Unless they offer new information, which I don't think has ever happened in these last few decades at least, where can you learn anything if you don't like to verbally ask?
I've found out on here about the flash gm and how it's to become available on the NHS and it's likely if I hadn't it will never be offered but now I can indicate an interest in the future. I'm a geek who works in I.T. and love my gadgets
So hello to you all, long term and novice, T1 and T2 diabetics alike, kindred spirits one and all, and your thoughtful, helpful and none judgemental information posts which I have read a lot of in the past.
Jonathan