Thank you so much for sharing your story
@TrevorMorgan . What an incredibly tough experience to go through... That combination of ketoacidosis, a serious infection, and such a high HbA1c sounds absolutely terrifying, and it's no wonder you felt like you were at your limit. It’s really powerful to hear how you made the decision, even in the midst of all that, not to let diabetes defeat you. You’re so right that the psychological side of recovery often gets overlooked - accepting the condition and finding the strength to keep going day to day can be harder than any medication or lifestyle change.
If you’re open to sharing more, I think folk would be really interested to hear the rest of your plan - it sounds like you've put a lot of thought into what’s worked for you. Your experience could really help others facing similar challenges. Wishing you continued strength and steadiness on your path!
Hi there, leva DUK,
Thanks for your kind words. I haven't thought too much about my plan going forward. I am continuing with my regime to regulate ,manage or control - whatever you want to call it- my Blood glucose levels as best I can. I have put myself on a low carbohydrate diet of around 90 grams per day. The dietician at the the clinic rubber stamped my decision without discussing the pros and cons with me.
I exercise in the morning by doing weights, squats, sit ups and push ups etc. I walk at least 10 k per day, 3days a week I jog 6k.
I do a lot of research from books and the internet. With the internet i must be very careful to double check or triple check, the scientific evidence. I am sceptical but not cynical about homespun claims too improve Blood Glucose regulation. Metformin was a god send for me and at least it was tested by peer reviewed studies.
Professor Roy Taylor's books about managing your diabetes are brilliant, and so are Michael Mosely' s books.
I find that diabetes UK is mine of useful information. The Xpert- health handbook is also very useful especially the section about maintaining your health parameters.
For me taking measurements is a key part of regulating my blood glucose and managing my weight and physique. Of course daily blood glucose monitoring is a bit hit and miss, but it gives you a good indication of how you are doing. The tape measure does not lie and it helps me to keep my waist measurement below 50% of my height. Measuring how much carbohydrate I eat helps, but now most of the time I can judge the amount rather that use a scales.
My exercise routines mean that my body has to "burn" fat and protein to keep me going so i make sure I eat eggs and cheese. I love cheese and eat much more than the NHS recommendation of 30 grams per day. My cholesterol levels are well within limits despite eating lots of cheese and eggs. There is no need for statins. As far as I am concerned the NHS has got its cholesterol advice wrong.
I try to spread the word to my friends about the dangers of diabetes without nagging or preaching. Looking like a bag of bones helps with this as I have to explain why I have lost so much weight to alleviate the effects of diabetes. We have lots of friends, but only two of them ,as far as I know, took one look at me and decided to have an Hba1c test. One of them found out he was pre-diabetic the other found out he was close to being pre-diabetic.
I am not too concerned about my 43 mmol Hba1c result even though it had gone up from 38 mmol when I was taking Sitagliptin and Metformin. I have to accept that I am a diabetic, not pre-diabetic, and always will be.
My GP is rushed off her feet but she has the time to keep up with the latest research about diabetes and cholesterol etc. I listen to her advice.
I believe that the NHS does not have the correct level of qualified resources to really help me much and I feel very much alone. This is why I have joined my local Diabetes UK group in Bromley; they are brilliant just like the folks on this forum.
From a psychological point of view I do not feel that I need professional help as my wife really supports me. She puts up with me when I rant about having to stay in control all the time.
Possibly, I could fail to maintain remission but I have learnt not to beat myself up when I have a setback. My body plays tricks on me sometimes, and the unexpected and unplanned-for happens. This condition is just about manageable if you have got the luxury of time to plan your diet and enjoy exercise like me. However, if things don't go your way don't beat yourself up: you are not to blame.