Yes I have 3 kids age 13, 12, and 8, my son (12) has autism and ADHD and my oldest has some traits of autism but not enough to be diagnosed for, I thought I had bipolar but it turned out to be borderline personality disorder, I suffer massive depressive episodes, I didn't have a good childhood with an abusive mother, but that's another story, been diagnosed as a baby was hard but I couldn't imagine been diagnosed now at my age that must of been hard for you, No I'm the only one who has diabetes I was worried that my kids could get it but nothing as of yet (fingers crossed).
At least your on a pill that helps you lose weight and keeps your bloods down, I can't even imagine the needle in the eyes that sounds horrible but at least you can still see, do you have insulin resistance with the insulin not working properly and have you asked about the libre 3 with the insulin pump? I have days when I have loads of insulin and my bloods stay high and takes hours even after 40 units of novorapid to come back in to range, it has been better on the sensor having the alerts, but 36 years of injecting causes lumps and bumps under the skin and it's not able to absorb properly which I do know my legs and stomach are like the roads outside today and the top of my arms are massive and hard, but I do keep using them so I can't blame anyone else for that, high blood pressure and diabetes are a high risk for a stroke and the doctors know they can come hand in hand with type 1, it always scares me when I think about all the problems diabetes causes, I started with leg pain first then my legs go purple mottled, all my nurse was saying over and over your circulation is fine but she wasn't really listening then I was diagnosed with fibro from another doctor, I have lost the feeling in the tips of my fingers before and it took over 6 months to fully come back. I test my kids bloods now and again to make sure there not starting with any symptoms.