Good grief, Northerner, what a story! It's one of my real bug-bears, helping both my kids learn to cook (and clean, but that's another story!). This is not because I think my cooking is great shakes -- couldn't be further from the truth actually, I don't cook much at all, and can't and don't enjoy it -- BUT my husband does all the cooking, and loves it and my children love home cooked food. I really miss not having learned or been 'turned onto' good food earlier, so want it for my kids...
re links to developing diabetes, there are so many it's hard to name them all: birthweight, consumption of dairy, living in Northerly countries... Regardless of all of these there does seem a general agreement that there is a genetic propensity for type 1 anyway (type 1 and type 2 have no overlap in genes, apparently!) -- and that other factors may help bring this propensity to fruition as it were. But also, it's clear that any link is just that -- not a determinant, just a 'grouping' of things in common. Which means there are plenty of people with diabetes well outside any one grouping...
Confusing, sorry. Cup of tea time...