I read your original post but had no experience or advice to offer. I certainly didn't want to clutter up your thread with useless banter.
I just read your most recent post and I am saddened that you concluded that no one cared. I am sure that the people here do care but perhaps like me had nothing helpful/useful to say.
I have found the people here very helpful and caring and yes, occasionally a thread I may put up may get a very low (or even zero) response. But I do not see that in a poor light just that topic did not resonate with anyone at that time.
All the best to you and I do hope that you find an answer to your question. Perhaps, if you do, then putting up the answer her could help someone else, perhaps help someone lacking the confidence to post.