Introducing Myself

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Sally71

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Hi All, I have been lurking here for a year or so but until today have never plucked up the courage to register (a bit nervous of putting anything of myself on the Internet, don't do Facebook or Twitter either!). But you all seem very friendly, I've picked up quite a few good hints and interesting bits of info, and sometimes someone asks something that I think I might be able to help with, so perhaps it's time to start giving something back!

So to introduce myself... I'm Sally, my daughter was diagnosed Type 1 in July 2012, a few weeks after her 6th birthday. My Mum has also been Type 1 since about 1967, so I had a bit of a head start on knowing what diabetes is, but then discovered that it's a whole different ball game when you actually have to manage it yourself! We were lucky and got a pump very quickly; I had to be convinced about them but when we actually got it it took me less than a day to realise that it was going to make life a whole lot easier. My daughter's last HBA1C was 6.8, which I'm well chuffed with, for all of the previous year it was in the 7s, we finally worked out that it was because her BGs were going up to about 17 every night! And then it seemed to take ages to get them down again, but we are finally getting it under control now. For a long time it didn't enter my head that I could change basal rates myself and I used to leave it to the DSN all the time 😱 But now I'm comfortably doing the tweaks myself I can be a lot more on the ball and hopefully nip problems in the bud! (That was another massive learning curve, Mum is on MDI and doesn't know much about how pumps work.)

I have to say I'm lucky, the hospital team are fab, can hardly say anything bad about them at all, especially our DSN who is the person we have the most to do with; GP never challenges a prescription and just let's the hospital team get on with it; and school have been brilliant, they've taken it all on board and follow the care plan to the letter, always phoning me if anything slightly unusual happens. From what I've read here, others are not so lucky, you have my sympathies!

Anyway thank you for reading this, hope I haven't bored you to sleep! I do occasionally meet up with some other families with T1 children, but I think it will be nice to have some friends here too. I look forward to being able to join in properly with conversations now!

Cheers
Sally
 
Welcome to the forum, Sally71.

You bring an unusual double generation experience of type 1 diabetes. As you realise, experience, treatment etc type 1 depends on age at diagnosis and year of diagnosis, as treatments do move on. Do offer advice, as well as asking - nearly everyone does a bit of both.

As well as contact with parents, you may also find it useful to hear from people who are now young adults, but not so long ago were teenagers with type 1 diabetes. (Not me, by the way, as I got it aged 30 years)
 
Hi Sally. Glad to hear things are going well for you and your little one. It's great to hear positive stories!🙂
 
Hi Sally, pleased you plucked up the courage to post (same as me re facebook and twitter lol), welcome to the forum 🙂🙂
 
Thanks for replying, you are all very welcoming!

Yes the double generation experience is very interesting! My Mum was 22 at diagnosis, only on 1 injection a day at first, onto 2 sometime in the mid 70s and then MDI about 8 years ago I think. She tends to judge things by what she feels like rather than by what the test meter says (couldn't do blood tests at home for many years!), and if she gets a few readings in the high teens she doesn't let it bother her at all!

Whereas we have a young child on a pump and are being taught to be quite strict about it all, lots of testing, correcting, changing basals, checking for ketones when high etc. I am probably a bit too fussy and find the hardest thing is finding the happy medium between being too relaxed about it and trying too hard to get it right all the time and then driving myself batty when it doesn't work!

But my Mum is quite happy with the way MDI works for her and wouldn't want a pump, I think the advantages of pumps far outweigh the disadvantages and would not want to go back to MDI. I learned very quickly that diabetes is very individual, you have to find out what works for you and then forget about what everyone else does! Am looking forward to sharing experiences with lots of people!
 
Hi Sally its great to hear from you, your experience with your daughter has been such a positive one it is good to hear. I became diabetic at 12 and I am now 48 and since joining the forum I am amazed how things have changed.If I was a young diabetic now I would choose a pump any day of the week. My mum was also a diabetic diagnosed in 1960 and again the difference then, to me, to now is stunning. Things have moved on rapidly, again great to hear from you TinTin
 
Welcome Sally

The double generation thing is interesting. I have🙂 been T1 since I was 4 and my brother was diagnosed when he was 16. But there was no known history in either of our parents' families - so don't know how we both got T1. 🙂
 
Thank you for your replies!

I think it's not completely understood how people get diabetes, is it. There is obviously a genetic link in our family (there were others before Mum too), but some people can get it out of the blue. Your family is interesting Maryanne, two of you with no history before!

Thank you all for saying we are doing well, it hasn't all been plain sailing of course. We've had plenty of ups and downs, not least a cannula insertion that went horribly wrong and traumatised the poor child for about four months (cannula changes during that time were horrible!). Also I find it VERY frustrating at times and just want to bang my head against a wall! But after 19 months I'm finally starting to feel like I know what I'm doing, well most of the time anyway, there will always be those stupid days when it all goes wrong for no obvious reason!
 
Hello Sally and welcome to the forum, like your Mum I was diagnosed in the 60's (1965) I have a pump though and would never go back to MDI. 🙂
 
Welcome to the forum Sally 🙂 I was diagnosed T1 at the grand old age of 49! 😱 No history in the family, as far as I'm aware.
 
Welcome to the forum Sally from a fellow parent! 🙂

I am like you - no Facebook or Twitter and prefer to keep private, but nice to be able to share with people who understand. 🙂
 
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