I've just read your blog on this, wow that struck a chord!!
For what it's worth, my two sections were described as 'semi elective emergency c sections' (lol)...and actually they were amazing. Having the epidural feels weird, but is honestly not bad (despite what some people will say!). The room does feel very busy (bye bye dignity!
🙄) but the advantage of it being planned (or even half planned!) is everything's calm & under control. I got to kiss & hold both babies briefly, and with my second got a lovely long skin to skin cuddle in recovery afterwards - it was Amazing! We even got to take photos during the births (discretely angled of course!). Both births were far better experiences that I had expected. It does feel a bit odd, you don't feel pain but you do feel a bit of tugging etc (honestly not as gross as that sounds!)
If you know when you're due for delivery you can being hand expressing colustrum in the days before (assuming you want to try breast feeding that is)...la leche league do some good leaflets on that, bf & diabetes, c section etc. the best tip I can give you however, is buy some of those awful looking stretchy mesh post op knickers from jojomamanbebe or the NCT - they look hideous but will be much appreciated post op, trust me!
My second best tip is really, really don't try to do much in the weeks after the birth - just looking after baby will be enough work so be prepared to ignore all housework etc...!
Now I'll shut up & stop offering unrequested advice, sorry!!!
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