Sally71
Well-Known Member
- Relationship to Diabetes
- Parent of person with diabetes
My daughter is ill AGAIN... Nothing serious thankfully, just one of those nondescript 1-2 day illnesses that never really come to anything. But I'm so fed up, she has missed a ridiculous amount of school this year! She had 2 weeks off last November with appendicitis (a week of that in hospital!), and by now must have clocked up as much again just with silly little illnesses. It goes like this... She says she doesn't feel well. We get up and have breakfast just to test how unwell, usually there is no high temperature, no stomach upset, no coughing/sneezing/runny nose, no rash of any description, nothing at all wrong except that she feels rubbish. She loves school and isn't one for pretending so I do believe her and usually you can see that she isn't quite herself. This morning I noticed that if we talked about something nice like her Sylvanian Families collection or her upcoming birthday and party she brightened noticeably, so I packed her off to school anyway (I'm a hard mum!) and asked the teacher to keep an eye on her. She lasted 2 hours before I got the phone call to come and pick her up, which is longer than sometimes!
Hubby is away again this week so I'm now stuck at home until she feels better, and constant children's TV all day sends me batty so am currently hiding in my bedroom. I know I sound like a real unsympathetic old cow, but it just frustrates me that there isn't anything we can do about it, it isn't even a cold, all we can do is wait for it to go away again, which it almost certainly will do by tomorrow night. So there's no point seeing the doctor either because he won't be able to tell me anything I don't already know, he'll probably say "oh it's just a virus, come back if it doesn't get better after 5 days". This year I don't think we've managed to get through a single half term without at least one such illness (and this current half term is only 4 weeks long!).
Grrr... It's interesting actually. Daughter started school January 2011 (the last year that they did a January intake) and during her two terms in Reception she had only 3 days off sick which was when she caught chicken pox. In year 1 she had I think only 2 days off sick with a minor illness and then 3 days in hospital at the very end of the year when she was dx with D. In year 2 she had quite a lot of days off with minor illnesses, and in year 3 lots more plus appendicitis! I know that having D shouldn't make you more susceptible to illness but it seems a bit of a coincidence that she gets lots of things since dx and didn't before!
Can it be someone else's turn next please, I'm a bit fed up with all this. (Only for minor illnesses I hasten to add, I wouldn't wish D or appendicitis on anyone)
Sorry, just needed to rant. I've finished now, feel a bit better 🙂
Hubby is away again this week so I'm now stuck at home until she feels better, and constant children's TV all day sends me batty so am currently hiding in my bedroom. I know I sound like a real unsympathetic old cow, but it just frustrates me that there isn't anything we can do about it, it isn't even a cold, all we can do is wait for it to go away again, which it almost certainly will do by tomorrow night. So there's no point seeing the doctor either because he won't be able to tell me anything I don't already know, he'll probably say "oh it's just a virus, come back if it doesn't get better after 5 days". This year I don't think we've managed to get through a single half term without at least one such illness (and this current half term is only 4 weeks long!).
Grrr... It's interesting actually. Daughter started school January 2011 (the last year that they did a January intake) and during her two terms in Reception she had only 3 days off sick which was when she caught chicken pox. In year 1 she had I think only 2 days off sick with a minor illness and then 3 days in hospital at the very end of the year when she was dx with D. In year 2 she had quite a lot of days off with minor illnesses, and in year 3 lots more plus appendicitis! I know that having D shouldn't make you more susceptible to illness but it seems a bit of a coincidence that she gets lots of things since dx and didn't before!
Can it be someone else's turn next please, I'm a bit fed up with all this. (Only for minor illnesses I hasten to add, I wouldn't wish D or appendicitis on anyone)
Sorry, just needed to rant. I've finished now, feel a bit better 🙂