Hi Caryn
Sadly this is not uncommon. Most children with type 1 do NOT wake up at night when hypo. This is why most of us test during the night. It is a pain in the butt and lack of sleep is horrendous but we still test, better to be safe then sorry.
I do not wake my daughter Jessica (aged 9), if she is hypo, never have done. She has full sugar coke to treat hypos, the small 150 ml party cans, and I open it up, stick in a straw and pop the straw in her mouth whilst I'm holding the can. She drinks it in her sleep. Its quite sweet really as she sucks it like a small baby sucks a bottle in their sleep. She drinks the can in under 10 seconds and stay asleep. I wait 15 minutes and test her again and if she is ok I go back to bed. She is therefore not disturbed.
Please don't believe any medical person if they say your son will wake up when hypo. My old consultant did a study on that specifically and it was determined that most do not wake up.
I keep a box upstairs now permanently with coke, straws, a glucagon emergency kit, glucotabs, hypofit and when she goes upto bed the test kit goes up too so it is all to hand if I need it.
Reducing insulin when going into honeymoon is normal. The honeymoon period can last a month or anything up to a year or bit more. You will know when he is coming out of it at the other end, so don't worry that you won't know.
Do you carb count? You will see much better levels on MDI (multiple daily injections ie Lantus/novorapid or Levemir/novorapid) if you carb count. If you have not been told about that, ask your DSN to get the dietician to teach you asap.
Have you looked at
www.childrenwithdiabetesuk.org it is a website written by parents of children with diabetes for parents of cwd. It is fantastic (I'm a bit biaised though, they are all my friends
🙂)