Hi Hybriduno
My lad was 15 at diagnosis, and no-one ever mentioned night time testing. I must be thick, but it wasn't until I discovered this website some months after his diagnosis that I even realised people test at night 😱 So, shockingly, we never have. Even in hospital he was left from 10pm to 6am without testing (big as he is I stayed with him 24/7).
He has only ever knowingly had one night time hypo and woke from that. I heard all this crashing and banging about and he was going downstairs (admitting afterwards he nearly fell) 😱 looking for food and drink, despite having supplies in his room. Showed how he couldn't think logically about it. He was pouring with sweat and it was obvious to me something was wrong.
As a side issue, I am appalled at your team's lack of support. My son was so much older, but we were under the children's team and we had amazing care at the start. Home visits from the nurse and dietitian for several weeks (and the nurse even came a few times much later in the first year) and we have always had 24 hour phone numbers for emergencies. The first few days home we had twice daily phone calls if we didn't get a home visit, then they weaned us to a once a day phone call, then every other day, then at least once a week for quite a while. Each time we had a home visit we were educated a bit more, with reams of paperwork left with us, but in dribs and drabs so we could take it all in at a gentle pace. Our nurse gave us her office number and that of other nurses on the team but with specific days and times each nurse would be available for a non-urgent chat, and we have email addresses too. I really can't fault that side of our service, in fact I have nothing but praise for them. The initial 'training' was done in hospital by a different nurse as our DSN was on holiday at the time, and to this day the one who saw us first remembers us and ALWAYS makes a point of coming over to talk to us at clinic if she is there. I always think how lovely that is.
Anyway, back to the night time testing debate. What I would say is that it's obviously causing you some anxiety, so certainly to address your anxiety alone I would say yes do go and night time test (certainly if you are awake anyway to put your mind at rest a little). I used to worry about my lad if I was lying awake in the night for any reason (I am an erratic sleeper anyway) yet NEVER considered going to test him! I can't believe I didn't ever think of that in the early days. It consumed my every waking thought, yet I never thought to go and test him.
The one thing I would ask others generally though is "Do you still test EVERY night? And if not, at what age did you stop?" There are plenty who live alone, and there comes the time your 'child' goes off to uni, what then? I do understand with growing children hormones play a massive part though, so maybe once adult it all settles down a bit.
Sorry, I diversify! Hope you are getting on ok with it all though, it's so overwhelming at the start. I think you get on this rollercoaster and at the start it's one hell of a ride, but things do start to get a little easier with time, though it's a long time before it doesn't dominate your every waking thought. Hope you are all doing ok though.
Tina