Hello Chrissie.
First off, don't panic. you will both get there.
I was diagnosed T2 in Feb having been borderline for a couple of years and my initial readings were 22.8.
I went of Glits, initially on 80mg per day testing before and after each meal. This has now been upped, 80mg twice a day, 80mg in morning with 160mg in evening and now to 320mg per day as of Monday this week. Maximum dose I'm told.
Levels are now dropping to around the 10 mark, lowest 5.5 and I now only test before breakfast and before dinner (evening).
The plan is apparently to get the reading down, then reduce the Glits and move over to Mets.(others will provide the proper names)
I lost around a stone, felt totally knackered and was an irritable son of a bitch to everyone.
Since the meds I'm obviously all sweetness and kind, even the dog likes me.
I now weigh 15.5 stone and am 5.11 also with big hands and a wide grin.
Pricking your finger and doing the tests is a pain, but, practice makes perfect. I'm sure your man will find his way soon.
You could always do it for him to begin with. But be sure to have a good bedside manner and importantly a nice nurses uniform!!
Yes, lost weight but still troublesome to some and misogynistic to others. (not true, honest).
Don't get bogged down in all the diet stuff.
Eat sensibly, reduce the carb intake, smaller portions, cut out the snacks and eat more veg (Kale is wonderful as you will no doubt learn)!!
As with everything, it takes time to get your head around it, but you will.
Best of luck and tell your Man not to worry, nor you.
Welcome to this strange but entertainingly informative site.
Mike